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Gathic Illustration
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Conflict happens. Effective and meaningful resolution of conflict, all too
often, does not. As we look around our world—from fighting in the Balkans
and the Middle East, to labor strikes, to divorce—we can find conflicts that
persist despite the painful costs and despite the fact that there may be a
variety of possible resolutions that would leave the parties better off.
This reality has spawned a relatively new field of study known as “conflict
resolution.” Cobbled together from an eclectic variety of
disciplines—including law, psychology, economics, and sociology—conflict
resolution has developed theories and principles that have constantly
expanding application in new areas of human endeavor. As I near the end of
an academic fellowship in the field, I am struck by the degree to which
these guiding principles have seemed so familiar to me. I have, as it turns
out, seen them before: in the Gathas of Zarathushtra.
One of the guiding precepts of conflict resolution is the importance of
participation and creativity in our approach. The key is to use conflict,
where possible, as a positive force that prevents stagnation, stimulates
curiosity and learning, and promotes the search for new solutions at both
individual and social levels. Being creative and constructive; taking
responsibility; using our good minds to bring about fresh ideas; these are
themes that recur frequently in the Gathas.
Conflict resolution is
also about better outcomes. Theorists talk about integrative approaches to
problem solving: “expanding the pie before dividing it,” or “creating value
before claiming it,” or, what has become a cliché, seeking “win-win
solutions.” The use of a collaborative approach to reach the right result,
in the right way, at the right time, is something Zarathushtra would have
applauded. He taught that wise people should unite and pool their wisdom to
improve the world: “...those who strive with good name shall be united in
the good abode of good mind and righteousness of the Wise One.” (Y
30.10, D. J. Irani translation). At the same time, seeking a resolution that
leaves all the parties better off, rather than merely taking from one to
give to another, echoes Gathic teaching. “...Happiness linked with
dishonor, happiness that harms others is poison for the seeker.” (Y
53.6, D. J. Irani translation 1994).
Another key principle of
conflict resolution is the need to listen to, understand, and respect
differing positions. As the prophet taught: “One who listens and realizes
the truth, becomes a life-healing wise person. He controls his tongue to
express the right words when he wills. He, O Wise One, through Your radiant
light, proves good to both parties.” (Y. 31.19, A. Jafarey translation).
In the domain of law, the legal community is being urged by many to move
away from its exclusive, adversarial focus on the use of courts to resolve
conflicts and, instead, to seek more constructive, alternative dispute
resolution methods. Negative and reactive thinking produced by adversarial
argument stifles imagination and creativity and often constrains settlement
of disputes. Our attempts to address every conceivable social issue with a
written proscription has led to excessive reliance on law. The Gathas
contain only guidelines, not a list of proscriptions. Zarathushtra counseled
against reactive, destructive thinking—he warned against anger and
bitterness.
As the study of conflict
resolution expands, we gain new and greater insights into the degree to
which conflict provides opportunity for growth. In recognizing the
importance of learning “…how to deliver the wrong into the hands of
righteousness.” (Y. 30.8, A. Jafarey translation), Zarathushtra
anticipated the modern field of conflict resolution by thousands of years.
Article appeared in the
Summer issue of the FEZANA journal. Courtesy of Arthur Pearlstein, and the
guest editor of the Summer issue of the FEZANA journal, Mrs. Dina McIntyre
in consenting to this publication is hereby acknowledged. |