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Whom — and through them the Parsee Community —
I have tried to serve, to the best of my poor abilities,
For a long period of nearly 30 years,
As a Souvenir
Of my long connection with their Board as their Secretary,
And as a Token of Gratitude
For all that they have been pleased to do to help me in my Duties and to encourage me in my Studies.
JIVANJI JAMSHEDJI MODI.
I. SOCIO-RELIGIOUS CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS.
CHAPTER I. BIRTH CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS. | |
Birth, and auspicious events | 1 |
Pregnancy | 3 |
The fifth and other months of pregnancy | 4 |
Place of Delivery | 5 |
Lamp lighted on the birth of a child | 5 |
Period of confinement | 6 |
Isolation and Purification | 8 |
The first drink after birth | 8 |
Naming the child | 8 |
Birthday, Childhood | 12 |
CHAPTER II. MARRIAGE CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS. | |
Marriage, a good institution prererred by God | 14 |
Helping Marriage, a meritorious act. Herodotus | 15 |
Marriageable age | 16 |
Betrothal. Divo (lamp) and Adarni | 17-19 |
Marriage day and time, Sacred bath | 20-21 |
Marriage Dress, marks, presents, dowry, and procession | 22-23 |
Welcoming Ceremonies. Ceremonial fire. Witnesses. | 29-31 |
Ceremonies. Tying the knot. Hand fastening. Encircling. Throwing of rice | 31-34 |
Religious Ceremony. The Benediction | 35-41 |
Fastening the skirts. Washing the feet. Eating together | 42 |
Playing together. Entertainment, Menu | 44-46 |
Divorce | 47 |
[xiv]CHAPTER III. FUNERAL CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS.I.- Ceremonies relating to the Disposal of the body. | |
The object of observances, summed up in two words. | 61 |
Washing the shroud. Akhiânah. The last drink of Haoma juice, Final Bath. Isolation of the Corpse | 52-55 |
The Shroud, Paywand, Direction of the head. | 55-57 |
The Kasha or Boundary line. The Sanitary isolation. | 57-58 |
The Sag-did | 58 |
The presence of Fire. Prayers, Time of removal | 61-62 |
The corpse-bearers; Their even number | 62 |
The Geh sârnâ recital. The Bâj. The last look and the removal | 64-66 |
The Gaomez as a purifier | 66 |
The funeral Procession. The disposal | 66-69 |
The Tower of Silence | 70 |
The Solicitude for the living. Segregation and disinfection | 73 |
A few observances in the house | 74 |
II.- Ceremonies relating to the Soul. | |
The Picture of one's Deeds. Number three | 76-77 |
The Sarosh Ceremonies. The Oothamnâ | 77-80 |
Commemoration. Adoption | 80-82 |
The Chinwad Bridge, and Mithra, the Judge | 83 |
Ceremonies on the 4th, 10th, 30th, and Anniversary days | 85 |
II.- PURIFICATION CEREMONIES.CHAPTER IV. | |
The Pâdyâb and the Nâhn | 86 |
Reason, why importance is attached to Purificatory Ceremonies | 88 |
A sort of Padyab, common among many nations | 90 |
Two objects of Purification, Physical and Symbolic | 91 |
Four kinds of purification ceremonies | 91 |
1 Padyab, the first kind. Its four occasion | 92 |
2 Nahn, the second kind. The four parts of its Process (a) The padyab-kusti; (b) the symbolic eating of a pomegranate leaf and the drinking of Nirangdin; (c) The Patet or the Prayer of repentance; (a) The final bath | 95-99 |
The four occasions of Nahn (a) Naojote [navjote]; (b) Marriage; (c) Accouchément; (d) The Farvardegan Holidays | 100-101 |
[xv]CHAPTER V.THE BARESHNUM AND THE RÎMAN. | |
3.- Bareshnum, the third kind of purification, treated under four heads. | |
1 Its meaning and object | 102 |
How it differs from other kinds of Purification | 102 |
Original and modern objects. Darmesteter's view | 104-5 |
2 Description, as given in the Vendidad | 107 |
A Karsha or Kasha. The Pâvi. The Naogar | 113-17 |
3 The Bareshnum gah or the place of Bareshnum | 118 |
To lay out the place, (a) Digging magas or pits (b) Drawing Kashas or furrows; (c) Covering it with sand or earth | 118-22 |
A modem Bareshnum gah; (a) Its Locality; (b) Its area; (c) The form of its maga or pits; (d) The distance between the magas. Sets of stones there | 122-25 |
Plan of the Bareshnum gâh | 125 |
4 The Process of giving the Bareshnum | 126 |
(A) Preliminary Preparations of (a) the Requisites, (b) the Purifier, (c) the Place, and (d) the Candidate | 126-30 |
(B) The Process proper | 130-36 |
The Dog in the Ceremony | 135-38 |
Application of (a) the Nirang or consecrated cow's urine, (b) of sand, (c) of consecrated water, (d) The final Bath | 138-141 |
Table, showing the number of applications | 142 |
Consecration of the clothes | 143 |
6 Retreat of 9 days after the Bareshnum | 144 |
(a) The navshu Baths during the Retreat; (b) the Khub, (c) The season for the ceremony | 145-48 |
Causes that vitiate the Bareshnum. {a) Eating of food cooked by non-Zoroastrians, (b) non-observance of the Baj, (c) Long Travels and Voyages. Tacitus on the subject. Reason for the Prohibition. (d) Taking of oaths. (e) Falling off of the Turban, the turban and the padân being the insignias of Priesthood | 48-53 |
IV Riman, the fourth kind of Purification. Its Process. A Plan of its Place | 153-67 |
Old Iranian Purification and Modern Plague Operations. (a) Disinfection of polluted houses, (b) The Contacts (the Hamrît and the Patrît), (c) The Evicts (the Patrits), (d) Baths and Fumigations, (e) Conversation with the Infected, (f) Destruction of suspected things, (g) Prohibition of Burial | 157-161 |
Iranian, Hebrew, and Roman Purifications | 161-66 |
CHAPTER VI.PURIFICATORY PROCESSES AND CUSTOMS IN DAILY LIFE. | |
Purification of (a) a House, (b) and of Things defiled or infected | 167-68 |
Some Purificatory Processes in Daily Life. Uncleanliness of (a) Saliva, (b) Nail and Hair, (c) Issues | 168-70 |
Menses and Uncleanliness, (a) The Dastânistân or the Place of Isolation. (b) The Period of Isolation. (c) Purification from the monthly course | 170-173 |
The Pahlavi books on Menses | 173 |
The Present Practice | 174 |
Injunctions of the Leviticus. Pliny on Menses | 175-77 |
III. INITIATION CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS.CHAPTER VII.The Naojote [navjote] or initiation of the child into the Fold. | |
Two kinds of Initiation: 1 Naojote [navjote], the initiation of a Child into the Fold. (2) Nâvar and Martab, the Initiation into Priesthood | 178 |
1 The Naojote [navjote] (a) Meaning of the Word. (b) Age for the Initiation | 178-80 |
Sudreh, the sacred shirt. Its Structure and symbolism | 181 |
Kusti or the Sacred Thread. Its Structure and symbolism. Its knots | 183 |
The Account in the Pahlavi Dâdistâ-i-Dini | 188 |
The Ceremony. Sacred Bath, Ceremonial Requisites | 190-92 |
The Initiation Proper. (a) The Recital of the Confession Faith, (b) Nirang-i-kusti (c) The Articles of Faith, (d) the final Benediction | 192 |
[xvii]CHAPTER VIII.II. THE NAVAR AND THE MARTAB. THE INITIATION INTO ZOROASTRIAN PRIESTHOOD. | |
Priesthood hereditary | 197 |
1 The Nâvar, the first Initiation. | |
The different stages of Initiation; (a) The Bareshnum, (b) The Gewrâ, (c) The Initiation proper | 200-4 |
Gurz, the symbolic mace | 204 |
2 The Martab. | |
IV. THE CONSECRATION CEREMONIES.CHAPTER IX.I. Consecration of the sacred Fire and Fire-temples. | |
(A) Consecraton of the Atash Behram, the sacred fire of the first grade | 210-11 |
The Requisite 16 fires of different kinds: (a) the Collection, (b) Purification, (c) Consecration and (d) Unition of the Fires | 212-220 |
The Consecration of the united fires. Consecration of the Chamber of fire, (g) The final Enthronement | 220-26 |
The Spiritual rule of the sacred fire | 226 |
A National toast connected with the sacred fire | 227 |
Signification of the purifying and consecrating processes | 228 |
The sacred ash | 230 |
The Bui ceremony for feeding the fire, (a) Variation for the different grades of the sacred Fire, (b) The five times for the ceremony | 230-33 |
The Bui Oeremony in an Atash Behram | 234 |
(B) Consecration of the sacred fire of the Atash Adaran. (a) The Collection, (b) Purification, (c) Consecration of four fires. (d) The final Consecration of the united fire. (e) Its Enthronement | 239-242 |
(C) Consecration of the sacred Fire of the Atash Dadgah | |
CHAPTER X.II. CONSECRATION OF THE TOWER OF SILENCE. | |
The three stages. 1. Digging the ground (Kodâli mârvi). 2. Laying the foundation. The Tânâ. Its signification. 3. The Consecration of the Tower | 245-52 |
[xviii]CHAPTER XL.III. CONSECRATION OF THE ALAT OR RELIGIOUS REQUISITES. | |
Rapp on the Nirang used in Consecration | 254 |
An account of the Nirangdin Ceremony | 255 |
The consecration of the Varaçyo or the sacred Bull and his hair | 256-5 |
V. THE LITURGICAL CEREMONIES.CHAPTER XII.I. The inner liturgical ceremonies.I. The Yasna. | |
The Inner and the Outer liturgical ceremonies | 260 |
The Inner. I The Yasna, II the Visperad, III the Vendidad, and IV the Baj | 261 |
The Dar-i-Meher, the place of the Liturgical ceremonies | 261 |
The Yazashna-gah, or the Urvisgah, or the Hindholâ | 263 |
The 15 characteristics of an officating priest | 265 |
The two parts of the Yasna. I The Paragnâ and II the Yasna proper | |
1 The Paragnâ consisting of the ceremonies of (a) Barsam, (b) Aniyâonghan, (c) Urvarâm, (d) Jivâm, (e) Zaothra, and (f) Haoma | 266 |
The Liturgical apparatus. The Ritual of making it pâv or pure | 266 |
(a) The different khwâns or stone slabs | 270 |
(b) The Hâvanim and the Lâla. The Tashta, the Mârûi | 275-77 |
(c) The Barsam. Its use in the recital of Grace before meals. Its Preparation, Gathering, and Tying | 277-86 |
The Varaç ni viti, i.e., the hair-ring | 286 |
(e) The Astra or kâplo, i.e., the knife | 288 |
(f) The Kundi and other water-vessels | 288 |
(g) The Aiwâyâonghana, made from the leaf of the Date-tree, a symbol among the ancient Iranians. Its preparation and signification | 289-93 |
(h) The Urvarâm. Its Signification and Preparation | 293 |
(i) The Jivâm | 295 |
(j) The Darun or Sacred Bread. Its ceremonial eating (Châshni) | 296 |
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(k) The Goshudô | 299 |
The Yasna of the Parsis and the Jyotishtoma of the Brahmans | 299 |
(l) The Haoma. Its Botanical name. Its purification | 299-305 |
The Antiquity of the Ceremony | 305 |
Description of its ceremony under 4 bends (1) Preliminary preparation, (2) Purifying and consecrating the twigs, (3) Preparing and straining the Juice, (4) Drinking the Juice | 306-14 |
Dr. Haug on a kindred ceremony among the Hindus | 315 |
(m) Zaothra Water. Its Purification and Consecration. The object and symbolism of the ceremony | 316-18 |
The Ritual of mixing the Zaothra or Zor (Zor melavvi) | 318 |
(n) Fire and its Requisites. The metallic Cencer, the laddle, tongs, and the fragrant fuel | 318 |
II. The Yasna Proper. | |
Preparation and Consummation of the Haoma Juice | 321 |
Description of the 72 chapters with the ritual | 322-328 |
A View of the Antiquity of the Ritual, based on its Liturgical Apparatus | 329 |
CHAPTER XIII.II. THE VISPARAD CEREMONY.Visparad, A prayer for the Ratus. | |
The texts treating of the ratus. The Asha and the Ratu | 330-32 |
The eight priests referred to in the Visparad | 335 |
Their positions in the Yazashna gâh as determined in the Nirangastan | 337 |
The best Typical prayers referred to by the Visparad. The Staota Yasna, the Ahunwar with the number of its recital on different occasions, the Ashem, the Yenghe Hatam | 340-49 |
CHAPTER XIV.III. THE VENDIDAD CEREMONY. | |
The order of the recital of its chapters with those of the Yasna and Visparad | 350 |
CHAPTER XV.IV. THE BAJ CEREMONY. | |
The various Significations of the word Bâj | 354-558 |
The Requisites for the Bâj recited with religious ritual | 359 |
Different kinds of Bajs described | 360 |
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Baj of (a) Panch tâi, (b) Sraosha, (c) Fareshtâs, (d) Pantha Yazata (e) Nairyosangh (f} Agrêras, (g) Vanant with the ritual of Vanot kâpvi, (h) Jashan days, (i) Ardâfravash, &c. | 361-371 |
The Lesser Bâj recited on smaller occasions | 371 |
Silence observed during meals after the recital of the Bâj (Prayer of Grace) | 373 |
Bâj recited on occasions of natural functions | 374 |
Bâj for the consecration of certain religious requisitee | 375 |
Technical phraseology and Object | 375 |
CHAPTER XVI.II. THE OUTER LITURGICAL SERVICES.I. The Afrinagan. | |
The Afrinagan of the Parsees and the Âpri of the Brabmins | 377 |
The Participants. The Zoti and the Râthwi | 377 |
The three parts of an Afrinagan. The Dibacheh, the Afrinagan proper, and the Afrin | 378 |
1 The Dibacheh. The Khshhnuman. The Yâd, Farmayâyashna | 378-84 |
2 The Afrinagan proper. Its variable and unvariable parts | 384 |
3 The Afrin. The eight Afrins, 1 Gahambar, 2 Rapithwin, 3 Ardafarosh, 4 Buzorg, 5 Myazd, 6 Spitaman Zarthosht, 7 Hamkârâ or Dahmân, 8 Gâhambar Pâvi | 387-90 |
The Ritual of the Afrinagan. The Myazda. Its requisites, Fruit, Flower (Language of Flowers), Wine. &c. | 390-98 |
The Arrangement of Flowers. The Expression of Approval | 398 |
The Orientation or Pointing of the 4 Directions and corners | 401 |
The Hamazor. Its occasions. The Kiss of peace | 401 |
The Asho-dâd | 406 |
CHAPTER XVII.THE FAROKHSHI. | |
The Fravashis or Farohars. Their Relation to the Higher Intelligences. Their work and classes | 408-411 |
The Fravashis, the Transcendental Essences | 412 |
The Fravashis and (a) the Ideas of Plato, (b) the Patterns of the Bible | 414 |
The Fravashis of men, living (born and unborn) and dead | 415-16 |
The Spiritual Constitution of man | 417 |
The Fravashi of the living and the Genius of the Romans, the Demons of the Greeks | 418-19 |
The Fravashi of the Dead. The Destiny of the soul | 419 |
Relations between the Living and the Dead | 423 |
[xxi]CHAPTER XVIII.THE SATÛM. | |
Satûm, a general hymn of Praise for the dead | 427 |
Satûm, recited over the meals | 428 |
The morsel of the dog | 429 |
CHAPTER XIX.GROUPS OF LITURGICAL CEREMONIES. | |
1 The Hamâ-yasht | 431 |
2 Geti-kharid | 431-33 |
3 Sarosh. The Yazata. Jorani Kriya. Expenses | 434-38 |
The Uthamnâ, the Sosh, the Lâkh, the Ashodâd, Gâe bhanâvvi. Dhup sârvi. Chehâram | 438-44 |
4 The Zindeh-ravan | 446 |
5. The Nirangdin | 466 |
6 The Gahambars. Their importance, (a) Agricultural or Seasonal and (b) Cosmogonical | 446 |
The six Gahambars as Season festivals | 446-48 |
The Gahambars, as connected with Cosmogony | 448 |
The two principal functions of the Gahambars, (a) the liturgical service, (b) the feast | 449 |
(a) The service; the Afrinagan, Baj, Visparad, Pâvi | 449 |
The Pâvi. The ritual and its name | 450-451 |
(b) The solemn Feast. How to celebrate a Gahambar | 451 |
The sacred feasts of the Iranians and of the Jews | 453 |
The Washing of hands in the feast | 453 |
The present practice. The public gatherings | 454 |
7 Jashan. Its three kinds. Those connected with (a) the season festivals. (b) the dead, and (c) past Historical events | 457 |
The Jashan days during the 12 months of a Parsee year | 455 |
8 Fravardegan or muktad | 464 |
The Nâm-grahan recited on the occasion | 470 |
Its Importance and the principal observance | 471 |
Albiruni and Anquetil Du Perron on the Farvardegan holidays | 473 |
The Hurak, Mâchi, and Tâkche and Behrun | 473 |
Flowers and the Memory of the dead | 476 |
Ideas symbolized by the ceremony. The prayer | 478-79 |
9 Farestâ. The Yazatas. Their two classes. Those referring to (a) the physical and (b) Spiritual World | |
The Amesha. Spentas. The Hamkars | 482 |
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I. SOCIO-RELIGIOUS CEREMONIES
AND CUSTOMS.
CHAPTER I.Birth Ceremonies and Customs.
The ceremonies and customs, that fall under the head of
"Socio-Religious Ceremonies and Customs," may be subdivided,
according to the three principal events of man's life, — birth,
marriage, and death — under the following heads:-
I.— Birth Ceremonies and Customs. | |
The birth of a child is a very auspicious event in a Parsee
house. It was so also in ancient Persia.
According to the Vendidad,1 Ahura Mazda
says:- "I prefer a person with children (puthrânê) to one without
children (aputhrâi)." Even the very ground, where lives a man with his
children, is described as feeling happy.2 Cultivation and a good supply of food to
people are recommended, because they make mankind healthy and able to produce a
healthy progeny.3 To be the father
of good children was a blessing from the Yazatas, like Tishtrya,4
Mithra,5 Haoma,6 and Atar,7 and from the Fravashis.8
To be childless, was a curse from the Yazatas.9 Domestic
[2]
animals, when ill-fed and ill-treated, cursed their masters, that
they may be childless.10 Childlessness was something like a
punishment from heaven.11 Kingly splendour (khwarrah)12 was associated
with those who were blessed with children.13 According to the
Shayest Na-Shayest, one of the advantages of having children
was "that the duty and good works which a son performs
are as much the father's as though they had been done by his own hand."14
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1. IV, 47. 2. Vendidad, III, 2. 3. Vendidad, III, 33. 4. Yasht, VIII, Tir, 15. 5. Yasht X, Meher, 65. 6. Yasna XI, Hom Yasht, 4, 7, 10, 13, 22. 7. Yasna LXII, Atash Niyayesh, 10; Vendidad XVIII, 27. 8. Yasht X, Meher, 3; Yasht XIII, 134. 9. Hom Yasht, Yasna Ha, XI, 3. Cf. The blessings and the curse of Cambyses (Herodotus III, 65). Cf. also those of Darius (Behistun Inscriptions, IV, 10, 11). 10. Yasna, XI, 1-2. 11. Yasna, XI, 3; Yasht X, Meher, 38, 108, 110. 12. Av. Kavaêm Kharêno. 13. Yasht XIX, Zamyad,75. 14. Chap. X, 22; XII, 15. S.B.E. Vol. V, pp. 325, 345. |
A Zoroastrian woman often prayed for a good, healthy
child.15 A Zoroastrian man and woman prayed before their
sacred fire for a good, virtuous child.16 A woman without a
child felt as sorry as a fertile piece of land that ia not
cultivated.17 She prayed for a husband who could make her a
mother of children.18
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15. Yasna. IX, 22. 16. Atash Niyayesh, Yasna LXII, 5. 17. Vend. III,24. 18. Yasht V (Aban), 87. |
Among the Achaemenians, a wife who gave birth to many children
was a favourite with her husband, who did not like to
displease her in any way.19 Children being the choicest gift of
God, their lives were, as it were, pledged by parents for the solemn
performance of an act.20 We read in Herodotus:21 "Next to
prowess in arms, it is regarded as the greatest proof of manly
excellence to be the father of many sons. Every year, the king
sends rich gifts to the man, who can show the largest number: for
they hold that number is strength." Strabo also says a similar
thing.22 We learn from the writings of the Christian Martyrs
of Persia, that the ancient Persians, did not, for the above reasons,
like the prohibition against marriage among the Christians in
the case of holy young Christian girls.
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19. Herodotus, IX, 111. 20. Herodotus, IX, 10. 21. Ibid I, 136. Rawlinson's Translation, Vol. I, p. 277. 22. Bk. XV, 11. |
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In the Avesta itself, we find no references to any ceremony or
rite during the state of pregnancy. The only
allusion we find is this:- Women on finding
themselves enceinte prayed before Ardwisura for an easy delivery,23
and then for a copious supply of milk at their breast for
their children.24 The allusion to these prayers suggests, that
there may be some formal ceremonies accompanying those
prayers, but we do not know what they were.
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23. Yasht, V (Aban), 87. 24. Ardwisur Niyayesh, 3. |
Coming to later Pahlavi and Persian books, we find, that the
Shayaaast ne-Shayest directs, that, when it is known that a lady of
the family has become pregnant, a fire may be maintained most
carefully in the house.25 The Saddar also gives this direction.26
We have the remnant of this injunction in the present custom of
some of the modern Parsees, who on the occasion of the completion
of the fifth and seventh months of pregnancy, light a lamp
of clarified butter in their houses. The reason, assigned for this
in the Pahlavi and Persian books, is that the fire, so kindled in
the house, keeps out daevas, i.e., evil influences from the house.
Again, a fire or a lamp is even now taken to be symbolical of
the continuation of a line of offspring. For example, it is not
rare to hear, even now, words like these "Tamâro cherâg roshan
rahê" i.e., "May your lamp be always burning." This benediction
is meant to say: "May your son live long, and may your
line of descent continue." The ancient Iranians believed that
there were many chances of the children to be born being
males, if the males were stronger than the females at the time
of conception. (Bundehesh, Chap. XVI).27
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25. Chap. X, 4; XII, 11. S.B.E. Vol. V, pp. 316, 343. 26. Chap. XVI, 1. S.B.E. Vol. XXIV, p. 277. 27. Vide my Anthropological Papers, Part II, p. 207. |
According to the Avesta, in the state of pregnancy, a woman
is to be looked after very carefully. It is wrong for the husband
to have sexual intercourse with her in her advanced state of
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pregnancy, which, according to the Rivayats, commences with
the fifth month.28 She is to abstain from coming into contact
with any dead or decomposing matter, even with a thing like
one's tooth-pick which may contain germs of one's disease.29
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28. Four months ten days. Vide Anquetil Du Perron, Zend Avesta, Vol. II, p. 563.
(Paris, N. M. Tilliard, 1771.) 29. Shayast ne Shayast, Chap. X, 20; XII, 13, (S.B.E., Vol. V, pp. 323, 344); Saddar, XVII, 2 (S.B.E., Vol. XXIV, p. 278). |
During pregnancy, the modern Parsees have no religious
ceremonies or rites. On the completion of
the fifth month of pregnancy one day is
celebrated and known as "Panch mâsiûn,"
i.e., the day ot the fifth month. Similarly,
a day is observed on the completion of the seventh month, and
is known as Agharni. These days are observed as auspicious
days of rejoicing only in the case of the first pregnancy. They
are observed not in accordance with any religious injunction or
with religious ceremonies or rites. The expectancy of a child
being a joyful event as said above, these days — especially some
day after the completion of the seventh month — are observed as
joyous occasions, when the lady who is enceinte is presented with
suits of clothes by her parents, relatives, and friends and especially
by the family of her husband. The husband, is in turn, presented
with a suit of clothes by the wife's family. Sweets are sent
out as presents by the husband's family to the bride's house and
to near relations and friends. In these sweets, one prepared in
the form of a cocoanut,30 has a prominent place. A cocoanut
typifies a man's head31 and so it is a symbol of fecundity. Some
[5]
of the customs observed on these occasions are more Indian in
their origin and signification than originally Persian or
Zoroastrian.
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30. Among the Rajputs of India, the acceptance of a cocoanut is a
symbol of the acceptance of a proposal for marriage (vide Tod's
Annals of Râjasthân, edited by C. H. Payne, p. 25).
[i.e. James Tod, Annals and antiquities of Rajast'han, or the central and
western Rajpoot states of India (London, Smith, Elder and co. [etc.] 1829-32.) 31. The following story connects the cocoanut with a man's head. An astrologer once said to a king that, whatever was sown or planted on such and such a coming auspicious day, would grow well. The king said: "Suppose somebody sows a man's head on a stony ground, will that also grow up into a luxuriant tree?" "Yes,' said the astrologer. The king, thereupon, cut off the head of the astrologer and sowed it in a stony ground. The cocoanut palm grew out of it. (Journal of the Ceylon Asiatic Society. January 1891.) |
In the case of the first delivery, it generally takes place in the
house of the wife's parents. A room or a
part of a room, generally on the down-floor,
is prepare an set apart for the purpose. As
the Vendidad32 says, the place for delivery must be very clean,
dry and least-frequented by others. It appears, that in former
times, such places were specially provided in Parsee houses on
the down-floors. Parsee houses in those times had generally
spacious down-floors that were used for all purposes. The upper
floors were low, and were rather like lofts. So, the down-floors
provided proper places for delivery, as enjoined in the Vendidad.
But, as, with changed circumstances, Parsee houses of today
are not what they were before, and as, at present, in storied
houses in big towns, the down-floors are generally the worst part
of the houses, places of delivery at the down-floor are now-a-days
properly condemned as unhealthy. In the case of a house or a
place where no delivery has taken place before, religious-minded
persons generally take care that a religious ceremony
may be performed there before the delivery. In other words,
they get the place consecrated. A priest or two say and perform
the Afringan prayer and ceremony over the place. At times, even
the Baj prayer is recited. It seems that one of the lost nasks (books),
the Husparam, had special chapters on the subject of parturition.33
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32. Chap. V, 46. 33. Denkard, Bk. VIII, Ch. XXXI and XXXV. 9, S.B.E., Vol. XXXVII, pp. 100 and 109. Dastur Darab Peshotan's Denkard, Vol. XVI, pp. 20 and 28. The second of the above two chapters, refers to various subject, of obstetrics. |
On the birth of a child, a lamp is lighted and kept burning,
for at least three days, in the room where
the lady is confined. The Saddar says: "When the child becomes separate from
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the mother it is necessary to burn a lamp for three nights and
days — if they burn a fire it would be better — so that the demons
and fiends may not be able to do any damage and harm; because
when a child is born, it is exceedingly delicate for those three
days."34 Some people keep the lamp burning for ten days and
some for forty days, the latter number being generally observed
as the period of confinement.
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34. Chap. XVI, 2; S.B.E. Vol. XXIV, p. 277; vide also the Persian Farziât-nameh of Dastur Dârâb Pâhlan; vide the Gujarat Farziât-nameh (1843), p. 5. |
On delivery, the mother is enjoined to remain apart from
others. She is not to come into contact with
fire, water, and other furniture of the house.35
In the case of those that give birth to still-born
children, it is enjoined in the Vendidad,36 that they must
thus remain apart for 12 days. This period has been latterly
extended, as described m the later Pahlavi and Persian books,
to forty days in all cases of delivery. Now-a-days, a Parsee
lady has generally forty days of confinement after delivery.
The Saddar says: "During forty days it is not proper that
they should leave the child alone; and it is also not proper that
the mother of the infant should put her foot over a threshold in
the dwelling (i.e., leave the house) or cast her eyes upon a hill,
or it is bad for her menstruation."37
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36. Vendidad, V. 45-49. 37. Vendidad, V. 55-56. 38. Chap. XVI. 4, S.B.E., Vol. XXIV, p. 277. |
Some families, following the Hindu custom, observe the fifth
day after birth, known as pachory (i.e., the fifth day), and the
tenth day, known as dasori (i.e., the tenth day), as gala days,
but these days have no religious signification.
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During the above forty days, the lady is in a state of isolation.
She is not to come into contact with anybody and with any part of the ordinary
furniture of the house, especially wooden
furniture and linen articles. Her food is to be served to her on
[7]
her plate by others. Those who have to come into contact
with her have to bathe before they mix with others. Even the
medical attendants had to do so, but, now-a-days, this sanitary
rule is more honoured in the breach than in its observance.
The original injunction may, among some other reasons, have
been intended to observe "purity" in order to prevent the
spread of the diseases to which women in this state are subject.39
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39. Vide the chapter on "Maternity and its Perils" in Mr. Havelock Ellis's The Nationalization of Health (1892), pp. 123-143. It says that in England and Wales, where 4,500 women die every year in child-births "about 70 percent of this mortality is due to puerperal fever" and that "almost the whole of this mortality might be avoided." It is the careless medical practitioners and midwives, that are responsible for this mortality, because they do not take sanitary care, and therefore carry germs from one woman in confinement to another. The midwifery writers of old said to their disciples: "Thine is a high and holy calling; see that thou exercise it with purity." In the enjoined isolation of the Parsee women during their confinement, the original intention seems to be that of observing purity. Some of the later Pazand and Persian writers have not properly understood the original good object of the early writers, and so, have carried the rigour of isolation too far. But anyhow, the origins injunction of isolation is intended for the purity referred to by old mid-wifery writers. Vide Dastur Jamaspji's Sad-dar (...), pp. 142-46, for some further medical opinion. |
At the end of forty days, which is the period of confinement,
the lady has to purify herself by a bath before ordinarily
mixing with others. At first she takes an ordinary bath and
then goes through what is called 'nân,' a contraction of the Sanskrit word
"snân " which is a sacred bath.40 A priest, generally
the family priest, administers that bath with consecrated water.
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40. Vide below, Chap. IV, Purificatory Ceremonies. |
All the bedding and clothes of the woman, used during the
forty days of her confinement after delivery, are rejected from
ordinary use. They are enjoined to be destroyed, lest they carry
germs of disease among others. But, now-a-days, that injunction
is not strictly followed. They are given away to sweepers.
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Formerly, a mother in child-birth first drank a few drops of
the sacred Haoma-juice, which was squeezed
and consecrated in a fire-temple. The
Persian Farziât-nameh of Dastur Darab
Pâhlan says, that a new-born child should be made to drink a
few drops of this juice. If the consecrated Haoma-juice (para-Haoma)
may not be had, one may pound at home a few Haoma
twigs and a few leaves of the pomegranate tree (urvarâm) in
water with the recital of an Ahunwar and give the juice for
the first drink. In the Hom Yasht,41 Haoma is said to give
fine healthy children to women. Haoma was emblematical of
immortality. Anquetil Du Perron42 refers to this religious
custom as prevalent in his time. But now-a-days this custom
is rarely observed, and in place of the Haoma-juice, a sweet
drink made of molasses or sugar is given to the child as a first
auspicious drink. The Farziât-nâmeh asks the mother to feed
the child with her own milk for 18 months if the child be male,
and for 15 if it be a female.
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41. Yasna IX, p. 22. Vide my paper on "Haoma in the Avesta" for the
health-giving properties attributed to the plant. Vide my Asiatic Papers,
Part I, pp. 225-43. Journal of the Anthropological Society of Bombay, Vol. VII, pp. 203-21. 42. Zend Avesta, II, p. 564. |
Herodotus43 refers to the custom of naming the child among
the ancient Persians. We infer from what he says,
that the parents waited for some
time after birth, and then, watching the physical and mental
characteristics of the child, gave them such names as indicated
their characteristics. In the case of modern Parsees, many name
the child after an immediate deceased ancestor. A Parsee name is
made up of three names. The first is his own personal name. The
second is his father's name and the third is his surname or
family name. Now, it is the first of these three, that is the
proper name of the child; and in the case of that name, many
prefer to call a child by an immediate ancestor's name. Suppose
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a person named Jivanji had his father named Jamshedji, and his
mother named Âwânbâi. Then, on the birth of a child, if it is a
male child and if his own father (Jamshedji} was dead, he would
prefer to name it Jamshedji. If it were a female child, he would
like to name it Âwânbâi after his deceased mother. Some resort
to a so-called astrologer and name the child as advised by him.
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43. Bk. I, 139. |
This process of naming the child has one particular religious
significance, and it is this: In all religious ceremonies,
during life or after death, a person's name is recited as he
or she is named at the time of his or her birth: This name
is called Janam-nâm or birth-name. In his or her Naojote [navjote], i.e.,
sacred shirt and thread ceremony, marriage ceremony, or any
other ceremony enjoined by him or her during lifetime (Zindeh-ravân),
the birth-name is recited together with the father's
name. In all the ceremonies after death (Anôsheh-ravân), the
name is similarly recited. In the case of a female, her personal
name is recited together with that of her father as long as she
is not betrothed. But after betrothal, her name is recited
together with that of her husband.44 As a lady's name is recited
with her huband's in all ceremonies after betrothal, the
ceremony of betrothal is known as "Nâmzad shudan" in
Persian, meaning "to be named," or nâm pâdvun in Gujarati
meaning "to give a name."
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44. Among the present Zoroastrians of Persia and those of the Kadmi sect in India, who follow them, her name is recited with that of her father. |
Herodotus says of the old Achremenian times, that "their
names, which are expressive of some bodily or mental excellence,
all end with the same letter."45 Looking to the names as given
in the Avesta, we find that they mostlyend in 'a'. The same
or similar names when given by Greek writers end in 's'.
This can be easily seen from a list of Iranian names given
by Rawlinson46 with their corresponding forms in
Greek writings.
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45. Bk. I. 139. Rawlinson's Herodotus, Vol. I, p. 279. 46. Ibid, Vol. III, pp. 550-63. |
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We find from stray allusions here and there in the Pahlavi
and Persian writings, that, at times, children were named after,
or in memory of, some particular events at the time of their
birth. For example, names like Rustam and Kobâd are
associated with some particular events at the time of their birth.
Herodotus47 speaks of Persian names as expressive of their
physical form. Thus we read in the Khushro Shirin of Nizami
that the father of Khusro Parviz named the child Khusru,
because he saw him 'kinglike' (Khusravi) in appearance.
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47. Bk. I. 139. |
Most of the modern Parsee names end in ji (, Avesta 'ji',
Persian Zîstan 'to live'). In the recital of prayers in honour of
the dead, this suffix 'ji' is generally dropped, especially among
the priestly class. It is taken to be a suffix-appellation of only
the living. Modern Parsee names can be traced to certain few
sources. For the males they are the following:- (1) Some of
them are derived from the names of some of their Yazatas or
angels. They are Hormusji (from Avesta Ahura Mazda,
Hormuzd, the first Yazata), Bahamanji (Avesta Vohumana,
Persian Bahman, the 2nd Yazata), Adarji (Adar, the 9th), Khorshedji
(Avesta Hvare Khshaeta, the 11th), Meherji (Avesta Mithra, Persian
Meher, the 16th), Behramji (Avesta Verethragna, Pahlavi Varahram [Varharam],
Persian Behrâm, the 19th), Din (Avesta Daena, the 24th), and
Homji (Avesta Haoma the 32nd in the list of the Siroza).
(2) Some names are derived from some
precious jewels; for example, Dhanji, Hirji, Manockji, Ratanji.48
(3) Some names are adopted from those of their Iranian
ancestors, as mentioned in the Shah-nameh and in other Iranian
writings; for example, Ardeshir, Burjorji, Bezonji, Dârâshâh,
Dârâbji (Dorabji), Edalji (Adalji), Erachji, Fardunji (Fredun),
Firozji (Pirozeji), Frâmji (Framroz), Godrezji, Gustâdji, Jâlbhai,
Jamshedji, Jâmâspji Jehângirji, Kaikusru, Kekbâdji
(Kaikobâd), Kerbâdji, Kâvasji, Khodâbux, Minochehrji
(Mancherji), Meherwânji (Meherbân), Nâdirshâh, Nowrozji,
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Nushirwânji, Pâhlanji (Pâhlûm.), Pestonji (Peshotan), Rustamji,
Shiâvakshâh, Shâpurji, Shehriârji, Sohrâbji, Tehmulji (Avesta
Takhma-Urupa, changed in Pahlavi into Tahamurasp, then
contracted by dropping the final asp, into Tahmur, then changed
into Tahmul). (4) Some names have been taken bodily or with
slight changes from the Hindus. For example, Bapuji,
Bhikhâji, Dâdâbhai, Dâjibhâi, Dosâbhai, Fakirji, Ghândibhâi,
Jijibhâi, Jivâji, Jivanji, Kuvarji, Lavji, Limji, Motâbhâi,
Nânâbhâi, Pochâji, Santok, Suklâji, Ukarji.
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48. Vide for their meaning, the similar names of women on the next page. |
Coming to the names of the female sex, 'Bâi' the last part
of their names corresponds to the last part 'ji' of the males.
One can divide them under the following groups:- (1) Names
derived from the names of the Zoroastrian Yazatas or angels.
These are Bahmanbâi, Adarbâi, Âvânbâi (from Awân the 10th
Yazata), Khorshedbâi, Meherbâi, Dinbâi, Hamâbâi (from Homa or
Haoma. (2) Names derived from wealth or precious metals
or jewels. They are Dhanbâi (wealth), Hirâbai (diamond),
Jarbâi (Persian Zar gold), Manockbâi (ruby), Motibâi (pearl),
Ratanbâi (jewel), Rupâbâi (silver), Sunâbâi (gold). (3) Names
derived from old Persian names: Bânubai (Persian Bânu lady),
Freni, Gulbâi (Persian Gul flower), Navazbâi (contracted from
Persian Arnavâz, a sister of King Jamshed), Pirozbâi,
Pourouchisht, Tehminâ. (4) Names derived from expressions for
sweets: Mithibâi (sweet), Shâkarbâi (sugar), Shirinbâi (Persian
Shirin sweet, also an Iranian name). (5) Names taken from
the Hindus: Âimâê, Âlibâi, Bachubâi, Bhikhibâi, Chândanbâi,
Dosibâi, Jâibâi (Jâiji), Kuwarbâi, Nâlibai, Sukhlibâi, Virbâi.
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We find from these above lists, that some names are common
to males and females. It is only the suffix 'ji' or 'bai' that
makes it a male or a female name.
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As for the names derived from the Zoroastrian Yazatas or
angels, children are at times named after some particular
Yazatas, if they are born on the days of the month bearing
the name of those Yazatas. For example, a male or female
child born on the day Mihr, the 16th day of a Parsee month,
may be named Meherji or Meherbai respectively.
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The birthday of a Parsee child — and especially the first birthday
— is an important day. No religious rites
are enjoined as necessary.
But the parents generally like to celebrate the day in what one
may call, a religious way. After a bath and a new suit of
clothes, the child is generally sent with some sandalwood to
an adjoining Fire-temple. There, the ash of the sacred fire is
attached to its forehead. Some of those, who can afford, get
a religious ceremony, known as Fareshtâ,49 performed. That is
generally done on the first birthday. This ceremony consists
of the recital of prayers in honour of the 33 different Yazatas or
angels, and indicates, that God's blessings are invoked upon the
child, and that it is wished that it may be blessed with all the
physical characteristics and mental virtues over which God has
directed these Yazatas to preside. According to Herodotus,50
"of all the days in the year, the one which the ancient Persians
observed most was their birthday."
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49. Pers. i.e., ange1. 50. Bk. I. 133. Vide Ibid., Bk. IX. 110-14, for the king's birthday feast 'Tykta.' The king soaped his head and gave gifts on this day. He refused no demands of gifts on that day. For the meaning of the word 'tykta', see my Asiatic Papers Part II, p. 242 (Bombay, British India Press, 1905). |
From a strictly religious point of view, there is nothing special
to be remarked in the case of the childhood
of a Parsee child. It is held to be innocent
and not liable or subject to the performance of any religious
duties or rites. If God forbid, the child dies before the Naojote [navjote]
or the investiture of the sacred shirt and thread, its funeral
ceremonies are on a lower scale. In the recital of the funeral
prayers, the child is spoken of as 'Khûrd,' i.e., small or young.
This appellation signifies that the deceased person was too
young and that it had no responsibility for duties or rites as a
Zoroastrian.
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At or about the age of six, the child has to learn by heart a
few religious prayers — especially those falling under the head of,
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and attached to, the Nirang-i-Kusti,51 i.e., the recital for
putting on the sacred thread. These must be learnt by heart for the
coming occasion of its Naojote [navjote], when it is to be invested with
sacred shirt [sudre] and thread [kusti]. After this investiture, the child's
name ceases to be recited as Khûrd in the prayers accompanying
religious ceremonies but is recited as Behedin or Oshta as the
case may be, i.e., as it belongs to the layman or the priestly class.
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51. Spiegel, translated by Bleeck, Vol. III., p. 4, Le Zend Avesta, par
Darmesteter, Vol. II., p. 685. |
According to the Farziât-nâmeh, when the child first begins
to speak, the first word to be taught to it is the name of God
and the next that of Zoroaster. At the age of seven, it may be
entrusted to a Mobad or priest for religious instruction. At
first, the Srosh Baj prayer, then the Niyayeshes, and then the
Yashts may be taught to it.
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The Pahlavi Aerpatastan52 has a chapter on the subject of
the childhood of a Zoroastrian child of old and of the responsibilities
of its Mobed preceptors. The latter were to take
no children under their charge without the permission of their
parents or guardians.53 There seemed to be a custom whereby
some children lived with their preceptors, whose fee for the whole
period of tuition is mentioned in one place as 500 drachms, or
about 600 rupees. The preceptors had, as it were, a kind of
lien on the children if the stipulated fee was not paid. If, at
the end of the stipulated time, they found that the guardians
were not the proper persons to whom the children could be
safely restored, they withheld the restoration.54 The Pahlavi
Andarz-i kutakân speaks of a few duties of children from a
religious point of view (Dr. Freiman's Text and Translation,
Dr. Hoshang Memorial Volume, pp. 482-89).
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52. Aerpatastan and Nirangastan, by Mr. Sorab Jamshedji Bulsara, M.A.
Aerpatastan Bk. I., Chap. IV. 53. Ibid., Chap. IV. I. 54. The following subjects are referred to in the Denkard as the contents of a section of the lost Husparum nask on the subject of childbirth and children: "Begetting a son; conception; tokens of a sex; formation of the limbs; Fravahars' power of making the sexes; childbirth and care of a child; spiritual vision of the child; habits tending to beauty and other good qualities." I (Dastur Darab Peshotan's Dinkard, Vol. XVI, contents, p. V). |
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CHAPTER II. MARRIAGE CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS. | |
According to the Parsee books, marriage is an institution that
is favoured by the Almighty God. According to the Vendidad (IV. 47), Ahura Mazda
says: "O Spitama Zarathushtra! Indeed,
I thus recommend hereunto thee, a man with a wife above a
Magava (i.e., an unmarried man) who grows up (unmarried), a
man with a family above one without any family, a man with
children above one who is without children." The very ground
where a married man lives is represented as feeling happy.
Zarathushtra asks: "O Creator of the physical world! Which
is the second place on the earth that feels happy?" Ahura Mazda
replies: "That (place is happy), over which a holy
man builds a house with fire, cattle, wife, children, and good
followers." (Vend. III, I.)1
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1. Compare with this, the following lines, wherein also the poet
describes the house of a married couple as feeling happy:- "What a delicious breath marriage sends forth The violet's bed not sweeter! Honest wedlock Is like a banqueting house built in a garden, On which the spring flowers take delight To cast their modest odours." |
The reason why marriage is recommended in Parsee books is
that there is a greater iikelihood for a married person than for
an unmarried one to be able to withstand physical and mental
afflictions and to lead a religious and virtuous life (Vend. IV, 48, 49).
We read in the Gathas (Yasna, LIII., 5): "I say (these)
words to you, marrying brides and bridegrooms! Impress them
in your mind. May you two enjoy the life of good mind by
following the laws of religion. Let each one of you clothe the
other with righteousness. Then assuredly there will be a
happy life for you."
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Marriage being thus considered a good institution and well-nigh
a religious duty, recommended by religious scriptures, a Parsee considers it
a meritorious act to help his co-religionist to
marry. The Vendidad (IV, 44) says: "If a co-religionist — be he brother
or friend — comes to thee with a desire for a wife,
get him married to a wife."2 To bring about the marriage of
a maiden, who has reached her puberty, with a good righteoun man,
is considered to be very meritorious and an act of atonement
for a sin {Vend. XIV, 15).
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2. It is not unusual for Parsees to enjoin by their last testament or by a Trust, that a certain amount of their wealth may be spent in charity in the way of helping poor brides to marry. A similar provision has been made by the first Sir Jamsetjee Jejeebhoy, Baronet, in his charitable Institution known as the Sir Jamsetjee Jejeehhoy Parsee Benevolent Institution; and even now, about 60 years after his death, poor brides are helped to be married. The Parsee Punchayet funds also have a similar provision. At present, about Rs. 75 are given to help the marriage of every bride. When parents lose by death a young son of marriageable age, they take consolation in this special kind of charity. This custom can be compared to that of the "funeral doles" of the ancient Christians, wherein pious Christians provided for the marriage of poor unmarried girls. Among the ancient Greeks, the State thought it its duty to provide dowries for the marriage of the poor maidens of the country. |
We learn also from Herodotus (Bk. I., 136), that in ancient
Persia, the State encouraged married life.
He says: "Next to prowess in arms, it is
regarded as the greatest proof of manly excellence to be
the father of many sons. Every year the king sends such gifts to
the man who can show the largest number, for they hold that
number is strength."3 Thus, from very ancient times, marriage
is considered among the Parsees to be a most important event in one's life.
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3. Among the Romans, the State encouraged marriages. A tax known as uxorium was imposed upon the unmarried. Celebacy was an affliction among the ancient Jews (Judges XI., 37; 1 Samuel I., 11; Proverbs XVII.,6). |
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After the several vicissitudes of fortune that the community
has passed through, it is difficult to determine
how many and which of the present several
marriage customs of the Parsees are originally
Zoroastrian or Persian. But this much can
be said with well-nigh a certainty, that the strictly solemn or
the religious part of the ceremony, wherein the priests take part,
is more or less originally Persian. M. Harlez seems to be correct
when he says on this point: "Nous ne trouvous pas non plus,
dans ce qui nous reste des livres avestiques, de cérémonies particulières
pour le marriage; il est probable cependant que l'origine
de celles qu'observent encore les Parses modernes remonte
aux temps les plus reculés."4
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4. Harlez, Avesta. (Introduction) p. CLXXI. |
In the very commencement of the Ashirvad [asirvad] or the marriage
Blessing-prayer, known as the Paêvand-nâmeh, and recited at the
wedding ceremony, the officiating head priest says that the
ceremony is "according to the rules and customs of the Mazdayasnian religion
(avar dâd va âin-i-Din-i-Mazdayasni)." We
gather from stray references in Herodotus (Bk. IX. 108) that
the Achaemenians observed some ceremonies for marriage.
Ferdowsi also refers to the existence of some marriage customs
(âin va kîsh. Mecan's Calcutta edition, Vol. I, p. 320).
According to the Avesta, a person came to manhood in ancient Iran at the age of fifteen (Yt. VIII., Tir, 13-14; Yt.XIV, Warharan, 17; Yasna IX., 5). The Pahlavi Bundahesh also gives the same age (Chap. III., 19, S.B.E. Vol. V., 16). So, fifteen was the marriageable age for males. For the females also it was 15 (Vendidad XIV, 15). The very fact, that in the Avesta we find brides praying for suitable husbands, shows that there were no early marriages (Yt. 5. Aban 87; Yt. XV, Ram, 40; Yasna IX, 23). The Paywand-nameh, recited at present at the marriage ceremony, also shows that early marriages were never contemplated. The bride and [17] bridegroom are asked to express their consent after "truthful consideration" (Tâ andâzandi paêmân pa râst manashni pasand kardehid). The book of Herodotus also points to a grown-up age for marriage. The marriageable age at present is generally after 21 for the males and after 16 for the females. The Parsee Marriage Act enjoins 21 for the males and 18 for the females. When they are not of that age, the marriage-certificate must be signed by the parents. The nuptial ceremonies of the marriage-day are preceded by several other ceremonies. When the match is arranged, an auspicious day is fixed for the betrothal. The new moon day, or the first day (Hormazd) of the Parsee month, or the twentieth day, over which Behram [Warharan], the angel of Victory, is believed to preside, are generally considered to be auspicious days. Now-a-days, the parties generally fix such auspicious days or the days most convenient to them. But still it is not rare, especially in the Mofussil towns, for the parties to resort to Hindu astrologers to name one or more auspicious days for the betrothal or marriage or such other auspicious events.
Matches are generally arranged by the parents with the consent
of the children, though, now-a-days, there are many cases of
marriages where marrying parties make their own choice. In the
latter case, they generally consult the parents. Mutual friends
of the two families generally carry messages and bring about the
arrangement. The Pahlavi Pand-nâmeh of Aderbad Marespand
recommends this process (§ 42). The marriages of
the three sons of Faridoon and the marriages of Rustam with
Tehemina and of Kaus with Soudabeh were, as we learn from Ferdowsi,
thus arranged. Upto late, and even now to a certain
extent, professional match-makers were not unknown.
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On the betrothal day, at first, the ladies of the bridegroom's
family go to the house of the bride and make her a money
present in silver coins. Then the ladies of the bride's family
go to the house of the bridegroom and make him a similar
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present. These reciprocal presents of silver coins form the only
important part of the ceremony.
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The ladies return to their houses, after a little refreshment,
mostly consisting of fish, sweets, curd, plantains and sugar. The
modern Parsee term for this ceremony is Adrâvvûn, but the
older5 term is Nâm pâdvûn, which is derived from the Persian
term 'Nâmzad kardan,' i.e., to name. It is so called from the
fact that after the betrothal, the brides took the names of the
bridegrooms.6 According to the Parsee custom, a girl's name is
always connected with her husband's in religious ceremonies after the
betrothal, even if, by some chance or accident, marriage does not take
place. This shows that betrothal7 was considered to be a solemn
ceremony for a marriage contract. Nuptial songs are generally
sung on this occasion.8
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5. An unbetrothed girl was said to be "unnamed," (nâ kardeh nãm).
Cf. Ferdowsi's statement about the daughters of the king of Yeman,
mar ân har sê râ nûz nâ kardeh nâm. (Mecan's Text, Vol. I,
p. 51). According to Anquetil du Perron (Tome II, p. 557), the
marriage ceremonies of the Parsees in Surat, at the time of his
residence there (A.D. 1760), were of two kinds, (I) Nâmzad (betrothal)
and Nekâh (marriage). Now-a-days, in Bombay, the priests do not take
any active part in the first ceremony, but it appears from Anquetil (II,
p. 557) that they did so in former times. The intended bridegroom and the
bride, and their families, met together, and the family priest of the
bridegroom said that "That was the will of God." He then recited the
Tan-Dorosti and the Profession of Faith prayer and gave the hand of one
into that or the other. In some of the Mofussil towns like Naosari, the
family priest or a friendly priest still takes an active part in the betrothal.
On the day of betrothal, he carries a formal message from the family of the
bridegroom to that of the bride and asks for the bride to be given in
marriage to the bridegroom. The parents express their pleasure to do so,
and stamp, as it were, their pleasure to do so, by presenting the priest
with n few rupees. Afterwards, a priest from the bride's family goes on
a similar errand to the family of the bridegroom. 6. Vide above, p. 9, the section of "Naming the child" in "The Birth Ceremonies. 7. Betrothal is so called, because in it a 'troth' or a promise of truthful adherence to a marriage contract is given; cf. the promise of Mithro virô mazô (Vendidad, IV, 2), which is considered by the Rivayats to be a marriage promise, to break which is considered to be a great sin. 8. For some marriage songs, vide my Marriage Customs of the Parsees. Vide Journal, Anthropological Society of Bombay, Vol. V of 1899. |
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The next ceremonial occasion is that of Divô, i.e., a light. It
is so called because early in the morning of a
day fixed for the occasion, an oil lamp is lit
in the house of each party.9 The ladies of
each of the two families go in turn to the house of the other,
and place a silver coin in the lamp there. This occasion is
considered more important than that of the betrothal, because,
on it, formal presents of clothes and rings are made. When the
matches are arranged, the betrothal is hastily determined upon,
to give a formal stamp, as it were, to the arrangement, The
parties then have no time to prepare mutual presents and gifts;
so, this second occasion, the day for which is fixed leisurely, is
more important than the betrothal, for the formal presents of
gifts, The first wedding rings are generally presented by both
the parties on that day.
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9. Cf. the custom among the ancient Greeks, according to which the bride's mother carried in her hand the bridal torches kindled at the family hearth, and the bridegroom's mother carried torches and awaited the procession from the bride's house. (The Home Life of the Ancient Greeks, by Blümner, pp. 139-140). |
The next important occasion is that of Âdarni, It is the occasion, on which, the dowry given by the bride's father, is presented to the bride-groom's family. On several other occasions of holidays between the betrothal day and the marriage day, several presents are sent to each other's family, mostly from the family of the bride to that of the bridegroom. The marriage occasion is one, when the mothers of the bride and the bridegroom, expect presents of clothes from their own parents. If the parents are dead, it is considered to be the duty of the brother or brothers to present a suit or suits of clothes to the sister. A nuptial song is generally sung on such an occasion. | |
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An auspicious day is fixed for the marriage. In some families,
even now, it is the astrologer who
determines which day is auspicious for the
marriage.10 The new moon day and the full moon
day are auspicious.11 Tuesdays are inauspicious.11 The
marriage festivities generally last for four days. The first of
these is called mândav-saro, when a twig of a tree, generally
a mango-tree, is planted near the door, symbolic of a wish for
fertility.12 The second and the third days are known as
Varadh-patra days when religious ceremonies in honour of the
dead are performed.
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10. In some families an astrologer's services are engaged before the
marriage also. When matches are being arranged by the intercession or
mutual friends, the horoscopes of the intended bride and bridegroom are
submitted to him to observe whether there was or not any râç between
the two, i.e., whether the stars predicted or not that there would be
harmony between the two. If that harmony is declared not to exist,
nothing further is done. 11. According to Strabo, the vernal equinox was considered to be the best season for marriages among the ancient Persians, because it was, as it were, the birthday of Nature. Among the ancient Greeks, weddings took place in the winter. "A favourite time was the month Gamelion (the end of January and beginning of February) which hence received its name. Certain days regarded as auspicious were generally chosen, and the waning moon was specially avoided." (The Home Life of the Ancient Greeks, by Blümner, p. 136). "The Athenians preferred the time of the new moon, while some of the Greeks considered the period of full moon as the most favourable" (The Knot Tied by W. Tegg, p. 63). Among the ancient Jews, "the fourth day of the week, i.e. Wednesday, was an auspicious day for the marriage of virgins and Thursday for that of widows." (W .Tegg, p. 53). Among the ancient Romans, "certain days were reckoned unfortunate for the marriage as the Kalends, Nones, and Ides, and the days which followed them, particularly the whole month of May. But widows might marry on these days. The most fortunate time was the middle of the month of June" (Ibid, p. 174). 12. Cf. The custom referred to by Mrs. Philgot in her Sacred Trees, pp. 88-91. |
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Coming to the ceremonies of the day of marriage itself, the
bride and the bridegroom take in the morning
or in the afternoon, a sacred bath with
consecrated water.13 This sacred bath is known as nân.14
The Parsee marriages are generally performed in the evening,
just a little after sunset.15 The bridegroom
generally sits in the compound of the house
or bungalow in a promiscuous place in the
midst of a company of several male friends and relations. The
bride and the lady guests are accommodated with seats
within the building.
Marriage is considered to be an event which must be celebrated, not quietly, but with some eclat. It must be celebrated in the presence of an assembly16 (anjoman) who can bear witness to the event. |
13. We learn from Ferdowsi, that this seems to be an old custom. King Behram Gour
took his Indian wife Sepinoud to the Fire temple of Adar Gushnasp for the purpose.
Among the ancient Greeks, "among the ceremonies bearing religious character which
preceded the wedding, an important part was played by the bath. Both bride and
bridegroom took a bath either in the morning of the wedding day, or the day before,
for which the water was brought from a river or from some spring regarded
as specially sacred, as at Athens the spring Callirhoe. (or Enneacrunoe)
at Thebes the Ismenus." (The Home Life of the Ancient Greeks, by Prof. Blümner,
translated by Alice Zimmern. p. 137). 14. Vide below Chapter IV. The Purificatory Ceremonies. 15. It is just the time when day and night unite together. So, perhaps that hour is chosen to indicate, that just as day and night, light and darkness, unite together and melt into each other, so the marrying couple may unite together in prosperity and adversity, in happiness and grief, in danger and safety. The ancient Romans also performed their marriages at night-fall, because they said it was the time when Venus, the goddess of beauty, which personified beauty in the marrying bride, shone. 16. In ancient Rome and Greece also, a similar view was held about marriage. But the assemblies began to be very large, and consequently extravagance in marriage expenses crept in. Hence, it was found necessary to limit the number of guests invited. Plato allowed 10 guests to each side, i.e., in all 20 guests were allowed at the marriage gatherings. A law of the fourth century fixed that number to be 30. A censor had the right of going into a house where the marriage took place and he removed out of the house any number that exceeded 30. |
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According to the Denkard, marriages were performed in ancient
Iran, with éclat. It says that the drums and fifes which played
at marriage gatherings announced the marriage to the people
of the town or village. The assembly of males that gathers on
marriage occasions is called Shâhjan, (i.e., the assembly for the
royal bride).
The bridegroom puts on the usual ceremonial dress — Jâmâ-pichhoir — of the Parsees, which is a loose flowing dress, full of folds and curls.17 This flowing dress is always white in colour.18 The bridegroom holds a shawl in his hand, a shawl being considered in India a symbol of respect and greatness.19 He has the mark of a Kunkun20 (red pigment) on his forehead. |
17. A loose flowing dress is, in all ages, considered to be necessary for
solemn and state occasions. In courts, churches, and universities, the
gowns and robes, which were similar flowing dresses, played an important
part. The folds of such dresses carried the idea of a kind of mystery,
respect, and rank. Women, therefore, generally put on such flowing dresses. 18. White colour is generally the symbol of purity, innocence and faith, fulness. The Roman bride used to wear a white gown on the occasion of her marriage. The ribbon-knots which the guests put on among the Romans on marriage occasions were also white in colour. 19. Fifty years ago the chief leaders of the Parsee community used to carry shawls over their shoulders. The head-priests of the community still carry shawls as the insignia of their office. The presentation of shawls to friends on important ceremonial occasions, as marriages, is still common to a certain extent. 20. Kunkun or the red pigment plays an important part on marriage, and such other gay occasions in India. Various explanations are given about its use. Some say that this red pigment is the symbol or substitute of blood, and that its use is the remnant of the custom of using blood on such occasions. They say that formerly they used to sacrifice animals on gay occasions like marriage, to avert evil from the married life of the couple. The blood of such sacrificed animals was applied to the forehead of the marrying couple. The application of the red pigment is considered to be a remnant and substitute of that custom. I have heard a story of a Divân of a native State, that on the coronation of his Prince, he made a slight cut on his thumb, and with the blood oozing from the wound, made the usual mark (til*acirc;) on the Prince's forehead. That was a prevalent custom among the Rajputs of Oodeypore (vide Tod's Râjasthân). In old Christian art also, an angel is shown stamping a mark on the forehead of the elect (vide The Life of Christ as represented in Art by Dr. Farrar). The legend explains the subject as the sign of the letter T which was originally a + (cross) and was a symbol of felicity, safety, and salvation. |
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The red pigment mark on the forehead of a bride is always
round and that on the forehead of a
bridegroom always long and vertical. The
reason is this: the long vertical mark of the
male symbolizes a ray of the sun, and the
round mark of the female symbolizes the moon. A handsome
man is compared by Oriental writers with the sun, but the beauty
of a woman is always compared with that of the moon. The sun is
always represented in ancient pictures, as a round disc with
shooting rays. Again, the sun, through his rays, is a fructifying
agent, but the moon is represented as a conceiving agent. She absorbs
the rays of the sun. Just as the sun is a fructifying agent, and the
moon a conceiving agent, so is man in his relation to woman. Hence it
is that the mark On a man's forehead is long and vertical like the rays
of the sun, and that on a woman's forehead round like the moon.
The bridegroom has a garland21 of flowers round his neck as a symbol of sweetness and geniality. The bridegroom is called var-râjâ, i.e., husband-king. For this particular occasion of marriage his position is taken to be elevated.22 |
21. Garlands play a prominent part in the marriage customs of many
nations. They were common among the ancient Greeks, Romans, and
Jews. In old Anglo-Saxon churches, the priest blessed the pair, and put
garlands of flowers round their necks. 22. They say, that in ancient times, among several nations, the marrying couple put on crowns. Among the ancient Greeks, the priest put crowns on the heads of bridegrooms. In Athens, the friends of the bride carried a crown for her. In Egypt also, the bride put on a crown. Among the Hebrews the marrying couple were made to walk under a canopy resembling a crown. In Norway, the bride put on a jewel resembling a crown. In ancient churches, they kept a metallic crown, which was lent to the marrying couple for the occasion. |
[24] Some of the assembled friends and relations then make their presents to the bridegroom and his father. The presents mostly consist of shawls or rings or money in cash. The bride and her parents receive similar presents from their friends. Up to a few years ago, these presents, especially those in cash, were very common. Small presents of cash up to Rs. 5 were not necessarily paid into the hands of the parties, but were given into the hands of a friend or relation, who acted as a receiver or collector for the occasion. He put down in a book the names of the donors and the amount of their money-gifts. Such money-presents used to payoff a part of the marriage expenses.23 The memo kept by the receiver proved to be of use to the parties when, on similar occasions of marriages in the family of their friends, they had to make similar presents in return. | 23. This custom reminds one of the "marriages of contributions" of ancient Wales and the "penny weddings" of ancient Scotland. In Wales, a herald went round in the town, announcing the marriage, and saying that presents would be received very thankfully and returned on similar occasions. Individual givers of small cash presents did not feel the burden of the small payment, but to the marrying couple and their parents, the total amount of these individual small presents was most welcome, as it enabled them to payoff the wedding expenses, and to put up a new house. In the case of the penny-weddings of Scotland, at times, the people of the whole village paid in their small contributions, and took a part in the wedding festivals. In some cases, the neighbours collected among themselves and presented to the marrying couple, sufficient corn that would last during the whole of the first year of their married life. In old England, they say, the nobleman in possession of the adjoining estates presented meat, and the milk-men milk, cheese, eggs, etc., for the wedding feasts. The schoolmasters and the priests generally lent their cooking utensils. The parties receiving these presents kept a note of such presents, and were generally ready to give similar presents on the occasions of marriages in the families of those who had given them those presents. In Cumberland, they placed a plate in a prominent place at the place of marriage, and the assembled friends put into it their mite. In ancient Europe, on the marriage day, the bride used to sell ale to her friends and to her husband's friends at fancy prices. The money so acquired helped them in putting up a new house. In ancient Egypt, the bride held in her hand a soft substance called henâ and the friends put in silver coins in that substance. |
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It appears from the Avesta, that in old Iran, it was more customary
for the bridegroom to give marriage
gifts to the bride than for him to take from
her. The duty of the father of the bride, and in his absence
or death, that of the brother, was confined to that of presenting
an ear-ring (gaoshâvarê) to the bride. The sum of 2,000 silver
dinars and two gold dirhems, referred to in the Pahlavi Paêwand-nâmeh,
recited at the marriage, seems to be the average
standard which an ordinary bridegroom of moderate means
was expected to provide for his bride.
An hour or two before the celebration of the marriage, the ladies of the bride's family and the bride's friends, form themselves in a procession, and carry for the bridegroom, to his place, presents of clothes and some other valuables. The houses of the bridegroom and the bride have a kind of wedding powder called chauk spread over their thresholds on such merry occasions.24 A nuptial song is again sung on such an occasion. They return to their place after this presentation. The assembly, then, forms itself into a procession, headed by the officiating priests and the bridegroom and followed by the ladies who carry with them what is called varni, i.e., a present from the var, (i.e., the bridegroom) to the bride. The procession is sometimes preceded by a band of music. According to the Pahlavi Denkard, one of the objects of playing music on the occasion of a marriage is to inform the whole town, especially the neighbourhood, that a marriage has been celebrated.25 The procession26 goes to the |
24. Vide my paper on "The Wedding Sand in Knutsford (Cheshire,
England) and the Wedding Sand () in India" (Journal, Anthropological Society of Bombay;
1912, Vol. IX, pp. 471.80). Vide my Anthropological Papers, Part II, pp. 31-39. 25. Dastur Peshotan's Denkard, Vol. II., p. 96. Vide "Notice Sur lez Yezedis," Journal Asiatique of January-February, 1896, p. 119. 26. Such marriage processions played an important part in many nations. In the Isle of Man, the marriage processions entered the church after going round three times. In ancient Greece, marriage processions were generally accompanied with musical bands and torches. The whole procession went on foot to the house of the bride, but the marrying couple were seated in a carriage. Up to about 70 years ago in Bombay, and about 45 years ago in Naosari, and such other Mofussil towns, it was common to see the husband — generally boy-husbands — riding on horses. In Naosari, some marriage processions were accompanied by men carrying guns which were fired at intervals. It is said that this is the case even now in some parts of Scotland. This seems to be a remnant of the ancient custom of marrying by capture when tribes attacked other tribes, and carried off marriageable girls. |
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house of the bride, where the marriage generally takes place.
A nuptial song is generally sung on this occasion.
The procession goes to the place of the bride, and its members are accommodated with seats, the males in the compound and the females within the house. The door of the house of the bride is decorated with a hanging string of flowers, called toran (i.e., arch) and the sideposts which support the doors are marked with Haradh (turmeric) mixture.27 This kind of decoration is observed on the door of the bridegroom's house also. A nuptial song is sung on this occasion. |
27. Among the ancient Romans, the door of the house of the bridegroom
was similarly decorated with flowers when the bride first went to
her husband's house. She herself applied oil to the door-posts, oil being
considered a symbol of prosperity. In Indian and other architectures,
the toran (archway) played a very prominent part (vide History of Indian Literature
by Harrowitz, p. 72). It is a symbol of marriage,
suspended at the portal of the bride (Tod's Râjasthân, p. 26).
The custom of applying Haradh (turmeric) to the door-posts is common in India. The word Haradh comes from the Sanskrit root har, which means "to be yellow, to shine." Its colour is like that of sunlight. So turmeric and other drugs of its colour are taken to be the symbols of sun's light, and also of the prosperity and plenty brought about by his fertilizing power. Hence, the marks made with turmeric are considered auspicious. Instead of the red pigment (Kunkun), some use turmeric for the auspicious marks on their foreheads. It is for its being a symbol of plenty and prosperity that the new account books, commenced to be used on the Dewali New Year's day by the Hindus, are marked with turmeric marks. According to Dr. Dymock, one of the different Indian words for turmeric is Rajni, i.e., light. They say that in ancient times young wives decorated their foreheads with auspicious marks of turmeric, a little before sunset, when they expected their husbands to return to their homes from outdoor work. This was intended as an auspicious thing, signifying that, as the sun, whose symbol the turmeric was, fructified the creation, so they may be fructified and blessed with children at the hands of their husbands. This custom is said to prevail even now in some of the Indian villages. Even young ladies, when visiting lady friends in the evening, have their bodies marked with turmeric. These visitors are then allowed to return to their husband's houses after sunset, which is considered to be the auspicious occasion for the coming of the goddess Laxmi, which presides over wealth and prosperity. According to the Iliad, Juno, in order to entice Juno, had her bed prepared of turmeric-coloured saffron. |
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After the assembly is seated, the bridegroom enters the bride's
house. He is welcomed at the door by the
mother of the bride. He is made to stand
at the threshold where several ceremonies
are performed to welcome him and to wish him good luck. A
fresh Kunkun mark is made upon his forehead, and a little rice
is stuck upon the moist Kunkun mark and thrown over his head.
Rice is considered to be the symbol of plenty and prosperity.
Hence the sprinkling of rice plays a prominent part on many occasions
of joy for wishing good luck. The officiating priests also,
in performing the religious ceremony, and in invoking the
blessings of God upon the couple, sprinkle rice over them.28
Before the recital of the marriage blessings, the bride and the
bridegroom also throw upon one another a handful of rice.
Some fond mothers make the bride and the bridegroom eat a
few grains of rice thus besprinkled over them in the marriage
ceremony.
An egg is then passed round his head three times, and then thrown upon the ground and broken. This seems to be the | 28. In Poland, the father of the bridegroom, after the nuptial benediction, welcomes the married couple into his house by throwing over them grains of barley corn. The grains are picked up again and sown, and, if they grow well, that is considered very auspicious. Among the Hebrews also, grains of barley were thrown in the front of the couple, and that was meant "to denote their wishes for a numerous progeny." In Nottinghamshire and Sussex, the sprinkling of rice on the couple was a prevalent custom. In ancient Spain, not only the parents of the couple, but other passers-by in the streets, also sprinkled corn. According to Dalton's Ethnology (p. 148), among the Buniyas, the bride and the bridegroom threw over each other seven handfuls of rice, and moved seven times round a pole buried in the midst of a hut. |
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remnant of the old custom of animal sacrifice.29 It signifies
that if there be any evil destined for the person it may pass off
to the egg and be destroyed with it.
A cocoanut is then similarly passed round the head three times and then broken.30 A little water is then poured in a tray, which is passed round the head three times, and then the water is thrown at the feet of the bridegroom. Once in the evening, the ladies of the bride's family present before the bridegroom a water-pot (called var-behendoo, i.e., a pot presented to the husband, (var), as a part of the dowry), and make him dip his hand in it. While doing so, he drops a silver coin into it as a return gift, and as a mark of his appreciation of their gift.31 At one time it was customary that the feet of the couple were washed with water just after the performance of the marriage |
29. Among the ancient Romans, on similar occasions, "a hog was
sacrificed. The gall of the victim was always taken out, and thrown away,
to signify the removal of an bitterness from the marriage." 30. In Scotland, they used to break a cake over the head of the bride at the threshold of her husband's house, when after marriage, she entered it for the first time. Among the Hebrews, after the marriage ceremony, they present before the bridegroom a wineglass which he breaks as a sign of good omen. All present then shout out "mazzletown, mazzletown," which means "good luck, good luck." This ceremony among the Hebrews is variously explained. Some say, it is to remind the Hebrews that their people are an scattered in different countries, just as the pieces of the glass lie scattered over the ground. Others say that it is to remind the marrying couple of the transitory state of this life, which may be as easily broken as the glass. 31. Water is considered to be a symbol of prosperity and also of humility. According to Herodotus, the ancient Persians, when they went to conquer foreign countries, asked for dust and water from those countries as tokens of submission. The act of the Athenians and Spartans of throwing the Persian messengers into a pit and into a well respectively, to receive with their own hands therefrom the desired earth and water, was one of the immediate causes of the Persian invasion of Greece, which led to the famous battle of Marathon. In one of the tribes of Bengal, they give earthen pots full of water and rice to the marrying couple, and sprinkle water over them from those pots. A person going out on an important business, considers it a good omen, if he meets one with a pot full of water. |
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ceremony. When Parsees began to put on English-fashioned
boots, it being a little troublesome to remove the boots, the
custom was to wash the tip of the boots with a little water.32
After the welcoming ceremonies on the threshold, the bridegroom is made to cross the threshold without placing his foot upon it. The bride also, when she goes to her husband's, is made to cross the threshold.33 The threshold is crossed with the right foot, which is always considered auspicious.34 When the bridegroom enters the house to be married he is further welcomed with a song. Having entered the house, the bridegroom takes his seat first, and waits for the bride, who comes in after a short time, to take her seat.35 The bridegroom sits |
32. In Scotland, in the last century, the unmarried friends of the bride
washed her feet on the evening preceding the marriage. The custom is
still known in some parts of Scotland as that of "feet-washing." It was
known among the ancient Hebrews and is known among the modern
Hindus. Among the ancient Romans also they washed the feet of the
couple. Among the Persian Zoroastrians, they still wash the feet of the
couple, and make them dip their hands in earthen water-pots. 33. According to Plutarch (Life of Romulus), among the ancient Romans, the bride, when she first went to her husband's, was lifted up over the threshold. A similar custom is said to prevail in Lincolnshire. They say, that in old England, when the couple first left the house after marriage, the house servant washed the threshold with hot water "to keep the doorstep warm." This was to indicate a wish that another marriage may soon take place in the family. 34. In some countries of Europe, the bride, while entering the Church to be married, is asked to put her right foot first into the building and then to leave it also with the same foot. In former times, when some royal marriages took place by proxy, the nobleman representing the royal bridegroom placed his right foot on the bed of the royal bride. The right hand side is always considered auspicious. Among the Dhankar tribe of Mahableshwar, to determine whether the time for marriage is auspicious or not, a calf in the hut is let loose to be fed by the cow which is kept outside the hut. If the calf, while going to the cow, passes by the right-hand side of the marrying couple sitting in the compound, the time is auspicious. If it passes by the left-hand side it is inauspicious, and the marriage is postponed for some time. 35. To make the bridegroom wait for the bride for some time, seems to be a custom prevalent among many people, Among the Zoroastrians of Persia, when, at the marriage time, the members of the bridegroom's family go to ask her to be present for the marriage, the bride does not go at once. Her relatives keep her away and say that "She has gone to the garden for picking flowers," or that "She has gone to her brother's." When the match is arranged, a few members of the bridegroom's family go to the bride's house to have her final consent. When they ask her, "Are you willing to marry such and such a person?" she is not expected to reply at once. The question is repeated several times, and then finally she replies in the affirmative in a low voice. In some tribes, when the bridegroom's party goes to the bride's, the latter's house is kept closed for sometime and opened after some knocking. Such customs and evasive answers are intended to signify, that it is the husband who seeks the wife and is anxious to have her, and not the wife. |
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on the right hand of the bride. The right hand side is a place
of honour, and so it is occupied by the husband who is considered
to be the leader of the bride.36
The bridegroom and the bride take their seats facing the East.37 There are two stools on one side of each of the chairs. On these are placed two metallic trays full of rice, which is to be thrown by the officiating priests over the couple while reciting their marriage benedictions. On the stool by the side of the chair on which the bride is to take her seat, stands a small metallic pot containing ghee (clarified butter) and molasses.38 |
36. In Christian marriages also, the bridegroom stands on the right hand of the bride 37. "We modern Christians perpetuate this custom of Orientation in the position given to our churches and in turning to the East when we recite the creeds or general assent to the articles of the Christian Faith." {Mrs. Ainsley's Symbolism of the East and West, p. 33). This custom is a relic of the ancient Sun worship that was generally prevalent. 38. Ghee being a soft, slippery substance made out of milk, is considered to be a symbol of gentility, courtesy and obedience. The ancient Roman bride, for similar reasons, applied oil on the threshold of her house when welcoming the bridegroom into her house. Even now, some fond Parsee mothers, while giving a bath to their children on their birthdays apply milk to their bodies. "Have a bath with milk, and be the parent of many sons," is a common form of benediction among Parsee ladies on marriage occasions. Curd, which is a kind of milk production, also plays a prominent part on joyous occasions like birthdays and marriages. Molasses being a sweet substance is a symbol of sweetness and good temer. So these two substances are produced by the family of the bride as symbols of good omen, wishing gentleness, peace and contentment to the couple. After the ceremony, the pot containing these substances and the remaining rice are presented to the family priest. |
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A servant stands there holding a censer with burning fire in
one hand, and a little frankincense in the
other.39 On the two stands there are two
burning candles, one, by the side of the bridegroom, and the
other, by the side of the bride.40
Then two persons are made to stand before them, one by the side of the bridegroom and the other by that of the bride. These are the marriage witnesses.41 The nearest relations generally stand as witnesses. It is usually married persons, not bachelors, who stand as marriage witnesses.42 As to the ceremony itself, we find, both from the ancient writings and the modern customs, that the following are requisite for a proper [32] marriage.:-
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39. Fire is held as a sacred and most important symbol among the
Parsees. So, it is present in most of the Parsee rituals. It is a symbol of
purity and plenty. Among the ancient Greeks, fire and water were held as
symbols of purification, and the bridegroom himself held them in his hand
while welcoming his bride in his house. According to some, the Roman
bridegroom held fire and water before his bride as "necessaries of life,"
signifying thereby that he would supply her with all necessaries of life.
Among the Romans, the marriage ceremony was performed before the altar of
their Atrium where their sacred fire was burning. In some parts of Australasia,
the brides carry fire to the houses of their bridegrooms. 40. These burning-candles remind us of the "bridal torches" of the ancient Greeks, among whom the mother of the bride carried these torches in marriage processions. They were kindled from their family hearths. 41. It is the custom of many nations to have witnesses to testify to the event of marriage. The ancient Hebrews also had two witnesses. The Christians also have two. Among the Romans, the Pontifex Maximus performed the marriage ceremony before the witnesses. In ancient Persia , the nearest relations stood as witnesses. According to Ferdowsi, in the marriage of Siavash with Firangiz, Afrasiab, the father of Firangiz, stood as a witness for his daughter. 42. In the Greek Church of Russia, it is only married priests that can perform the marriage ceremony. |
(1) The marriage should be celebrated before a specially-called
assembly (anjoman jasta-isted)43 which need not be very
large. As the later tradition says, five persons may for the
purpose form an anjoman or assembly. The assembled guests
served, as it were, as further witnesses to the marriage.
(2) The officiating priest questioned the marrying couple whether they consented to be united in marriage. (3) He united them by joining their hands, a process known as Hâthevârô, i.e., hand-fastening. A symbolic knot also played a prominent part in the ceremony. (4) The process uniting them was followed by a benediction which was accompanied with a sprinkling of rice or such other things. Before being seated by each other's side, the bride and the bridegroom are first seated opposite each other, separated by a piece of cloth held between them as a curtain. Now begins what we may call the religious ceremonies. Two priests present themselves for the performance of these ceremonies. The senior officiating priest gives the right hand of one into the right hand of the other. Then a piece of cloth is passed round the chairs of both so as to enclose them in a circle. The ends of the cloth are tied together. This is, as it were, strictly speaking the tying of the marriage-knot. This is done with the recital of the sacred formula of "Yatha Ahu Vairyo."44 |
43. Pahlavi Paywand-nâmeh. 44. A knot is a symbol of love, friendship and faithfulness. In old England, the bride carried, on her gown, a number of ribbon knots which the guests plucked off from her body and carried them with them as tokens of the event. That the custom of tying marriage knots among the Parsees is very ancient appears from Ferdowsi's Shah Nameh where Zal's marriage with Roudâbeh is said to have been celebrated by tying marriage knots. (Bê bastand bandi ba âîn o kîsh.) |
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After tying the knot of the ends of the cloth, which, as it
were, encloses them into a circle of unity,
the priest fastens with raw twist their right
hands which are grasped by each other.
This rite is called Hathêvârô, i.e., hand-fastening.45 The above
sacred formula is recited during this rite also. It is the family
priests who are entitled to the fee of hand-fastening, even if
the ceremony is performed by other priests.46
In the ceremony of hand-fastening, the raw twist is put round the hands seven times.47 After fastening the hands, the raw twist is passed round the pair seven times, and then, finally, it is passed seven times round the knot of the cloth which passes round their chairs. During all this process, the sacred prayer of Yatha Ahu Vairyo is recited. |
45. Up to the eighteenth century, there was a custom in England that
the marrying couple went to the river adjoining the town, washed their
hands, and each, grasping the other's hand, took the oath of marriage.
This was known as hand-fastening. Among the Christians also, it is the priest
who joins the handsof the couple. Among the ancient Greeks, the ceremony
of hand-fastening was considered as the ratifying agreement of
marriage. Among the ancient Romans, the priest made the marrying couple
sit on chairs which were put together, and on which wool was spread, and then
fastened their hands. The modem Hindus also unite the hands of the couple.
In Finland, it is the father of the bride who fastens the hands.
Among some tribes, slight cuts are made on the hands before their
being fastened, so that the blood of one may flow into that of another.
It is the right hand of each that is fastened because the right hand is considered
to be the witness of one's faith. Among the Assyrians, it was the
father of the bridegroom who fastened the hands of the couple with a woollen thread. 46. This reminds us of the custom among ancient Christians, that the marriages generally took place in the parishes in which the couple lived. But when they were performed in other parishes, it was the priest of the parish in which they lived, that took the marriage fee. 47. The number 7 plays a prominent part in this ritual of hand-fastening. Seven was a sacred number among the ancient Persians. There are seven Ameshaspentas, or archangels, seven heavens, and seven Keshwars, i.e., the zones or regions [or continents]. Cf. the seven archangels of the Hebrews and the seven Spirits of the Christians. |
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At the end of this ceremony, at a signal given by the senior priest,
the servant who holds the fire-vase
places frankincense on the fire. At this
signal, the curtain of cloth, which is held between the couple,
is dropped, and the couple throw on each other a few grains of
rice which they hold in their left hands. This throwing of rice
is accompanied by a clapping of hands by the friends and relations
who have assembled there.
The above ceremony of holding the cloth-curtain between the bride and the bridegroom, and then dropping it after the fastening of the hands, signifies that the separation that hitherto existed between them no longer exists now, and that they are now united into the bond of matrimony.48 As long as the curtain was held, they sat opposite each other, but on its removal, they are made to sit side by side. This also signifies that they, who were up to now separate, are now united together. The putting on of raw twist round the couple seven times also indicates union. The raw twist itself can be easily broken, but when several threads are twined into one, they cannot easily be broken. So it signifies that the tie of union into which the couple is now bound may not easily be broken. The throwing of the rice by the marrying couple upon each other is watched with great interest by their friends, especially by the ladies, who urge their respective friends, the bridegroom or the bride, to look sharp and throw the rice first when the signal is given. The one that throws rice first over the other is said to win. This is, as it were, a race of love. "Who won, the bridegroom or the bride!" | 48. Among the Hebrews, the bride at first put on a veil which was removed immediately after they were united in marriage. Among the ancient Christians, when the couple was kneeling in the sanctum, four of the assistant clergy held over their hands a poll or care-cloth which was afterwards removed. Among the Russians of the Greek [Orthodox] Church, "a curtain of crimson tafetta supported by two young gentlemen, now parts the lovers, and prevents them from stealing any anxious glances from each other's eyes." (The Knot Tied by W. Tegg. p. 106). |
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is a question often heard in the assembly.49 This is to signify
that one who throws rice first, thereby indicates that he or she
will be the foremost in loving and respecting the other. The
clapping of hands expresses the approval and good-will of the
assembly for the union.50 The priests also, during the recital
of the benedictions, throw rice over the marrying couple. To
throw rice or some such other thing over the marrying couple as a
symbol ot good luck and prosperity seems to be an old custom. Ferdowsi
refers to it in the case of Zal's marriage (akik va zabarjad bar afshândand).
Then follows the most important or the solemn part, or, what can be called, the strictly religious part of the ceremony. Two officiating priests stand before the couple. The senior priest at first blesses the couple in the following few words: "May the Creator, the omniscient Lord, grant you a progeny of sons and grandsons, plenty of means to provide yourselves, heart-ravishing friendship, bodily strength, long life and an existence of 150 years!" Then, he puts the following question to the person, who stands by the side of the bridegroom as a witness to the marriage, on behalf of the bridegroom's family:- "In the presence of this |
49. In some parts of Wales, the friends of both parties went after
marriage at the churoh to an adjoining inn to partake of the marriage
repast. A few members of both parties ran to an inn. There was a kind of
running race between them. The party who ran first and reached the inn first,
guaranteed, as it were, that the bride or bridegroom, whom they represented,
would be the first to show all love and respect to the other. In some parts
of the south of France, when the couple is kneeling at the altar
after the marriage, a lady goes before them, and pricks them with a pin.
Both try to bear that as much as they can. The one that bawls out or expresses
the feeling of pain first, is believed to be the one that would turn out less
pationt than the other in suffering the troubles, if any, of married
life in particular, and of this world in general. 50. This corresponds to the custom of saying "Amen, Amen" in some of the village churches of England, when, after the third reading of the banns, the clerk of the church says, "God speed them all." |
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company that has met together in the city of.......51
on .......52 day of .......52 month of the year
.......52 of Emperor Yazdegird of the Sasanian dynasty
of auspicious Iran, say, whether you have agreed to take this
maiden.......53 by name, in marriage for this bridegroom,
in accordance with the rites and rules of the Mazdayasnians,
promising to pay her 2000 dirams of pure white silver and two
dinars of real gold of the Nishapur coinage.54
The witness replies: "I have agreed." Then the following question is put to the witness on the side of the bride: "Have you and your family, with righteous mind, and truthful thoughts, words, and actions, and for the increase of righteousness, agreed to give £or ever this bride in marriage t0 .......?52 Reply: "We have agreed." Then the priest asks the consent of the couple in the following words: "Have you preferred to enter into this contract of marriage up to the end of your life with righteous mind?" Both reply: "We have preferred." To make the matter doubly or trebly sure, the questions are repeated three times.56 |
51. Here, the name of the town where the marriage takes place is mentioned. 52. Here, the particular Parsee day, month, and the year on which the marriage is performed are mentioned. 53. Here, the name of the bride is mentioned. 54. This sum seems to have been fixed in ancient Persia as the sum to be generally presented by the family of the bridegroom to the bride. 55. Here the name of the bridegroom is mentioned. 56 Among the Christians, the banns are proclaimed three times. Among the modern Greeks, the priest, after putting on the blessed ring, declares the marriage three times. He repeats the benediction three times. In some of the tribes of Central Asia, e.g., in Dardistan, the priest asks the marrying couple and the assembled company three times, whether they all consented. In the Greek Church in Russia also, the priest puts a similar question to the couple three times. His question is "Whether they sincerely consent to and approve their marriage, and whether they will love each other for the future as is their bounden duty so to do?" The Knot Tied, by W. Tegg (p. 107). |
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Then follows the recital, by both the officiating priests, of the
Paêvand-nâmeh or Asirvad (i.e. benediction),
which is an address made up of admonitions,
benedictions, and prayers. Here is a translation of the address.57
The first part of the address, consisting of admonitions to the marrying couple, is as follows:- | 57. I had the pleasure and honour of contributing the translation of a large part of this address to Mr. Doshabhoy Framji Karaka's very excellent book, The History of the Parsees (Vo1. I., p. 182). So, I quote it from that work. The rest, I had translated specially for my paper "Marriage Customs" before the Authropological Society of Bombay. |
Asirvad"By the helping name of Ahura Mazda may your happiness increase. May you be brilliant. Try to do good deeds. Be increasing. Be victorious. Learn to do deeds of piety. Be worthy to do good deeds, Think of nothing but the truth. Speak nothing but the truth, Do nothing but what is proper. Shun all bad thoughts. Shun all bad words. Shun all bad actions, Praise deeds of piety. Commit no acts opposed to piety. Praise the Mazdayasnian religion. Do nothing without mature consideration. Acquire wealth by good means. Say what is true before your superiors, and act according to their orders. Be courteous, sweet-tongued, and kind towards your friends. Do not indulge in scandals. Avoid being angry. Do not commit sins for the sake of avoiding shame. Do not be ambitious. Do not torment others. Do not entertain wicked jealousy. Do not be haughty. Avoid evil thoughts. Avoid evil passions. Deprive not others of their property. Keep yourselves away from the wives of others. Be industrious in following good professions. Do good to the pious and to the virtuous. Do not quarrel with the revengeful. Never be a partner with an ambitious man. Do not become a companion of a back-biter or a scandal-monger. Do not join the company of persons of ill-fame. Do not cooperate with the i1l-informed. Fight with your enemies only by fair means. Treat your friends in a way ageeable to them, Do not enter into any discussion with persons [38] of ill-fame. Speak in an assembly after great consideration. Speak with moderation in the presence of kings. Be more giorious than your father. In no way annoy your mother. Keep yourselves pure by means of truth. Be immortal like Kaikhosru. Be well informed like Kaus. Be as brilliant as the Sun. Be as pure as the Moon. Be as illustrious as Zarathushtra. Be as strong as Rustam. Be as fertile as the Earth. As soul is united with body, so may you be united and friendly with your friends, brothers, wife, and children. Always keep good faith, and preserve a good character. Recognise only Ahura Mazda, the Omniscient Lord, as your God. Praise Zoroaster as your spiritual leader. Treat Ahriman, the evil spirit, with contempt." After the above admonitions, follow a few benedictions, in the first part of which the priests pray to God to confer upon the couple, certain moral and social virtues which are said to be the characteristics of the Yazatas ([yazads] angels) who give their names to the thirty days of the month.
"May Ahura Mazda bestow upon you good thoughts through Bahman [Vohuman], good words through Ardwahisht, good actions through Shzhrewar, perfect thought through Spandarmad, sweetness through Hordad, fruitfulness through Amurdad. May God bestow upon you increasing lustre through Adar, purity through Aban, exalted position through Khwarshed, increase through the cow-like Mohor, liberality through Tir [Tishtar], temperate habits through Gosh. May God bestow upon you pure justice through Mihr, obedience through Srosh, truthfulness through Rashnu, increase of strength through Frawardin, victory through Behram [Warharan], constant delight through Ram, strong power through Gowad. May God bestow upon you knowledge through Din, collection of wealth through Ashishwangh, a number of good talents through Ashtad, great activity through Asman, firmness of place through Jamyad, good sight through Marespand, and nourishment of body through Aneran." | |
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Then follow a few other benedictions:
"Oh, you good men! May that come to you which is still better for you than good, since you find yourself worthy as a Zaota (a pious and virtuous man). May you receive the reward which is earned by the Zaota as one who thinks, speaks, and does much good. May that come to you which is better than good. May that not come to you which is worse than evil. Oh good men! May that accrue to you which is better than good. May your relations be worthy of goodness. May you get that reward of which you have made yourself worthy. May good accrue to you as the result of perfect good thought, perfect good words, and perfect good actions. May that piety come to you which is better than good. May not that sinful life, which is worse than evil, come to you. May it be so as I pray. May the much desired Airyaman come for joy to the good mind of Zoroastrian men and women. May he grant the desirable reward according to the law of an purities. I prefer that purity which is considered the best by Ahura Mazda. Righteousness is the best gift and happiness. Happiness to him who is righteous for the sake of best righteousness. Then are recited a few benedictions in which certain departed worthies of ancient Iran are mentioned by name, and it is wished, that the pair may be blessed with the virtues and characteristics which had made them famous. Certain grand objects of Nature also are mentioned, and it is wished that the couple may be blessed with the physical qualities | |
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manifested by them. The following is a free translation of
these benedictions:-
"By the name of God, I bless you in the City of Bombay58 as was the wont of our forefathers in Iran. May all your desires be fulfilled as were those of God in the creation of the world. May you be as great in dignity as king Kaikhosru.59 May you be as friendly as angel Mihr, as victorious over your enemies as Zarir, as handsome as Siavakhsh, as splendid as Bejan, as pious as King Gushtasp, as strong as Sam Nariman, as powerful as Rustam, as good a lancer as Aspandiar, as good a helper of religion and far-seeing as Jamasp, as holy as the Holy Spirits, as generous as Tishtrya, as sweet as rain-water, as brilliant as the Sun, as righteous as Zoroaster, endowed with a life as long as Time that rules over the world, as fertile as the Earth, as united as a river united with a sea, as full of joy as Winter, as gay as Spring, as fragrant as musk, as well-known as gold, as current (i.e. favourite) as a coin, as good a doer of virtuous deeds as God in his creation. May these good wishes be fulfilled. May you be as useful as the Sun, the Moon, Water, Fire, Wine, Myrtle, Jasmine, Rose, and the sweet Marjoram. May ....... and.......60 with their children and their progeny live for a thousand years. Be fragrant and good as the basil and the amber. May you have such pious children as may be illustrious, and victorious over enemies, and as may add to the glory of the family. May it be so as I wish it." A part of the address is, if so desired by the family, repeated in Sanskrit: They say, that when the Parsees first emigrated to India, in order to make it intelligible to the Hindu Raja and his courtiers who had given them a home on the Indian soil, they repeated the address in |
58. Or, any other city, where the marriage is performed, may be mentioned. 59. Kavi Husrava of the Avesta. For this and other proper names mentioned here, vide my Dictionary of Avesta Proper Names. 60. Here are mentioned the names of the bride and the bridegroom. |
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Sanskrit, which was then the language of the Court. That
practice they have continued up to now, though there is no
longer any necessity to do so at present. There is no written
authority about the above statement.
Then follow another set of benedictions in the Pazand language known as Tan-Dorosti. The following is a free translation of these benedictions:-
"By the name of the bountiful, merciful and kind God, who is a kind and just Lord, May .......61 have health and long life. May they be worthy of piety and splendour. O Omniscient Lord! let joy and pleasure, ease and plenty reach them and let Divine light and royal justice reach them. May they have courage and victory. May they be firm in their knowledge of the good Mazdayasnian religion by means of honest endeavour and good demeanour. May good relationship, the birth of children and long happy life be their lot. May their body be blessed with happiness and their soul with good government. O Omniscient Creator! May the religion of Zoroaster prosper. — Amen. O Great God! May you grant long life, happiness and health to the ruler of our land, to the community and to .......61 Grant them all these for many years to enable them to help the worthy. Give them a long life for many generations. May there be thousands of blessings upon them. May the year be happy, the month auspicious and the day propitious. Grant that for several years, several days, and several months, they may be found worthy and fit to perform religious rites and deeds of charity. Keep them pure for works of righteousness. May health, virtue, and goodness be their share. May it be so. May it be more so, as is the wish of God and His Archangels." | 61. Here are mentioned the names of the marrying couple. |
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The marriage ritual is repeated at midnight. Anquetil du Perron
says that it is a remnant of the
old custom of Persia where, in the town of
Kerman, the marriage ceremony was performed
at midnight. In many families, the practice of repeating
the ceremony at midnight and of the address in Sanskrit is
not resorted to now. The performance of the above ceremonies
and the recital of the address, complete, what we should call,
the solemn part of the celebration of marriage. But there are
certain other customs and observances, which, though very rare
in Bombay, are observed to a certain extent in the Mofussil
towns. It is the ladies who observe them. Moreover, they are
now rather looked on more with an idea of merriment than with
that of any solemnity.
The first observance of that kind is that of uniting Chheda cheddi, i.e. of fastening the skirt of the garments of the couple.62 The nearest friend or relation of the couple ties the skirts of the jâmâ (the flowing dress) of the bridegroom with that of the sâree of the bride. Thus united, the bride goes to the house of the bridegroom. The process of fastening the skirts is accompanied by a song. This custom also signifies the act of uniting the two into the bond of marriage. | 62. Among the Hebrews, the bride and the bridegroom were made to walk under a canopy or a sheet of cloth. This signified unity of protection. This custom seems to be another form of the custom of fastening the skirts of each other's garments. The Hebrew spouse in the above custom said: "His banner over me was love." (W. Tegg, p. 55). A Hebrew bridegroom at one part of the ceremony also spread the skirt of his garment over the head of his bride. That was meant to signify that the bride was now under his protection. The old Azlec priest used to ask the consent of the bride for the marriage. Having received it, he fastened the end of a part of her long veil to the skirt of the bridegroom's coat, and thus united, the bride went to the house of the bridegroom. This custom prevails also in Nicaragua. In some tribes the officiating priest gently knocked the head of the bridegroom against that of the bride. This also had the same signification of unity. According to Dalton (Ethnography, p. 148), among the Buniyers, on the appearance of the stars at nightfall, the skirts of the garments of the couple were joined together and they passed the night alone in this way. The next morning both were taken to an adjoining tank for a bath and the knot was untied there. On their return home, they stood at the threshold of their house with pots of water over their heads. A part of the water was then poured over their heads. |
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The next rite is that of "washing the feet" of the couple with
water.63 That was more practicable about
forty years ago, when almost all Parsees put
on native shoes without stockings. But now, owing to the
inconvenience of taking off English shoes and stockings,
only the front tip of the shoes is washed with a little water.
The signification of the custom may be that of washing away all
past mistakes and driving away all evils and misfortunes. More
probably, it signifies a kind of welcome. In India, visitors who
come from some distance, are first given some water to wash their
feet soiled by a long walk. At times, a lady hid the shoe thus
removed and did not return it unless paid a rupee.64
The next rite was that of making the couple partake of food from the same dish.65 In doing so, each gives to the other, morsels of food of which dahi or curd form a part. This rite signifies that now, being |
63. In Scotland in the 18th Century, according to an old custom, the
maids of the bride washed the feet of the bride on the eve preceding the
marriage. Among the ancient Romans, "both she and her husband touched fire
and water, because all things were supposed to be produced from these two
elements; with the water they bathed their feet." (W. Tegg, p. 75).
The custom of washing the feet is prevalent among the Zoroastrians of
Persia a1so. This custom of feet-washing prevailed among the ancient
Hebrews also. It is now prevalent among the Hindus. 64. "At Hindoo weddings, the brother or nearest relative of the bride hides the bridegroom's shoes and will not restore them until the bridegroom pays him at least a rupee and a quarter. (The Shoe, a Moral Essay, by Mr. Tribhuvandas Mangaldas, p. 5). 65. Among the ancient Romans, one of the forms of marriage was confarreatio which was "a ceremony in which the bridegroom and bride tasted a cake made of flour with salt and water in the presence of the high priest and at least ten witnesses. This rite was said to symbolize the community of life, of property, of family worship, that henceforth united them." Among the Roman Patricians, many generally resorted to this form of marriage, and the couple was made to sit on one and the same piece of leather prepared from the skin of a sheep killed for the marriage sacrifice. The bridal cake of Christian marriages seems to be a relic of the ancient Roman custom. Colonel Dalton in his Ethnography, gives several instances of tribes that have still prevalent among them this custom of making the couple eat together. As the Romans sat on one and the same piece of leather in their "confarreatio," so, some of the tribes sit together on one and the same piece of cloth. Among the ancient Hebrews, the couple were made to drink from one and the same cup of wine which was consecrated and blessed by the Rabi (W. Tegg, p. 54). In Russia and Scandinavia also, the couple are required to drink wine from the same cup. In Hesse, the couple eat from the same plate and drink from the same cup. According to a writer of the Asiatic Quarterly Review, in old Lombardy, the only marriage rite was this, that the marriage couple drank from the same cup and kissed each other. Latterly, when the clergy protested against this simple rite without any religious element in it, the benedictions from the priest and a sermon were added to it. Among the Melanasians, the couple gave each other three morsels from a dish called "sagomash." The bride then gave a little tobacco to the bridegroom who, in his turn, gave a betelnut to the bride. (Featherman, p. 32). |
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united in the bond of marriage, they have to board together
and to share each other's happiness and grief. This repast is known as "Dahi-Koomro"
from the fact that dahi (curd), which is considered an auspicious substance of
food on gay occasions, formed the essential part of the dish.
Another peculiar custom, now almost obsolete. is that of making the couple play Eki Beki which is a form of play. Both have several rupees in their hands. One, without letting the other know, takes a certain number in the right hand, and asks the other whether the number is eki (odds} or beki (even). If the other guesses the number right, he or she is said to win. Perhaps the signification is the same as that in the rite of throwing the rice referred to above, wherein the one who won, guaranteed, as it were, his or her desire to love the other more ardently than she or he would do. [45] A nuptial song is sung at the close of the wedding ceremony. After the celebration of the marriage, the bride accompanies the husband to his house. A nuptial song is sung by the ladies, when the bride is taken to her husband's house, and another is sung when the bride enters the house of her husband. After the celebration of the solemn part of the marriage ceremony, most of the guests were entertained at a marriage feast. The following were the toasts generally proposed at Parsee marriage feasts:-
All, or some of these, except the fifth, are proposed according to the directions of the host, and some one among the guests proposes that of the host. At some marriage feasts, a piously inclined host adds to the above list that of the dear departed ones as "Asho Farohar ni yâd," i.e., "the remembrance of the pious departed ones." In other communal feasts, while proposing this toast, and the first on the list, viz., that in remembrance of the sacred name of God, fragrant frankincense is ordered to be placed on the family hearth. No speeches are made while proposing them. At large gatherings, there are professional health-proposers. Loud and clear voice is their only qualification for the work. They simply give out the toast with a loud voice, and at times, when the dining parties are very large, they go round the tables, repeating the words for giving the toasts several times, so that all may hear. These toasts are drunk generally while dining, not at the end of the dinner. | |
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As to the menu, fish, which is considered a symbol of good
omen and luck, is essential. No marriage feast
can be complete without it. Again, a course
of some kind of sweets is essential. Meat is not generally eaten
in marriage feasts. It appears from Anquetil that the reason
why meat was prohibited in India, was, that formerly, at Surat,
which was at first the head-quarters of the Parsees, a large
number of Hindoo guests was invited. As Hindoos consider it
irreligious to slaughter animals for food, to spare their feelings,
meat was prohibited. But, from an account of the proceedings
of a meeting of the community, held in Bombay on the 18th of
October 1823, and convened to consider some steps to regulate
funeral and marriage expenses, it appears that meat was
prohibited on marriage occasions from the point of view of
economy.66 Meat courses were thought to be expensive.
DivorceIn connection with this subject of marriage, we will say a few words here on the subject of divorce and on that of adultery, which generally leads to it. It appears, that in ancient Iran, a husband was entitled to have a divorce from his wife in case of adultery. Besides adultery, aggravated perpetual quarrels also seemed to be a legitimate cause of seeking divorce. The parties had to go to court for a divorce.67 There seemed to be a set form of speech for the husband to give divorce.68 The Pahlavi word for divorce is zan-tajâ.69 Another cause of divorce on the part of the husband was the sterility of the wife. To be the father of children, being considered a good, important and religious act, it is natural that this was thought to be a valid cause. It was considered a valid reason, even in India upto so late as about 50 years ago. There was no clear divorce, until the wife wished to have one in |
66. Parsee Prakâsh, by Khan Bâhâdur Bomanji B. Patel, Vol. I., p, 172. 67. Dastur Peshotan's Denkard, Vol. II, Chap. LXXX, 16 pp. 98-99. S.B.E, XVIII, pp. 4O6-47. 68. S.B.E. XVIII, p. 407. 69. Ibid. p. 419. |
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such a case, but there was a permission for the husband to marry
a second wife. Even upto 50 years ago, the Parsee punchayet of Bombay
permitted such husbands to have second wives during the lifetime of their
first wives, but on one condition, that they were to maintain their first
wives. At times, the first wife finding herself sterile, of her own accord
asked her husband to have a second wife, and continuing to act as the mistress
of the house, treated the second wife with affection and kindness.
A passage in Herodotus also leads us to the same conclusion (Bk. IX, III). Xerxes asks his brother Masistes to divorce his wife. Masistes urges, as a reason not to do so, that she had borne him many children. The Parsees, now-a-days, are governed by the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act (Act No. XV of 1865) passed on the 7th April 1865. According to that Act, the following serve as grounds for a divorce (sections 27-30):- "1. Lunacy or mental unsoundness, at time of marriage, of which one of the contracting parties did not know. 2. Impotency. 3. Continual absence of one of the parties for seven years, without being heard of as alive. 4. Adultery of the wife. 5. Adultery, or bigamy with adultery, or adultery with cruelty, or adultery with wilful desertion for two years or upwards, or rape or unnatural offence, of the husband."70
AdulteryAdultery is the principal cause that leads to divorce. "The Avesta raises its voice with great force against misconduct in every form and lays down very wise restrictions to assure lawful birth."71 It looks with dislike even at marriages between persons of unequal |
70. Parsee Law, by Mr. F. A. Rana, p. 57. 71. Avesta, par C. De Harlez, Introduction, p. CLXXI. |
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positions, from moral and religious points of view. (Vendidad XVIII, 62). The
very fact that the ancient Iranians attached much importance to marriage, shows
that they looked upon adultery with horror. In the case of a maiden who had lost
her father, it was incumbent on the brother to give her in marriage at the proper
time. That was accounted an act of righteousness on his part. It was considered
inadvisable or almost sinful to allow a girl of marriageable age to remain unmarried.
In the Gatha Vahishtoishti (Yasna LIII, 7), there is a carefully worded warning against, what Dr. Mills calls, 'solicitations to vice.'72 There, it is said: "But yours be the recompense, (O ye righteous women!) of this great cause. For while lustful desire heart-inflamed from the body there beyond goeth down where the spirit of evil reaches (to ruin, still) ye bring forth the champion to help on the cause, (and thus conquer temptation), etc."73 The female Yazata Ashi (Yasht XVII, 47-60) complains bitterly against this vice. She says that it "is the worst deed that men and tyrants do,"74 when they seduce maidens from their path of virtue. In some parts of the Avesta and in the Pahlavi books, this vice is personified as 'Jahi.' The Yazata Haoma is entreated to withstand the evil influence of vicious women, whose lustful wavering soul is like a cloud which often changes the direction of its motion according to the direction of the wind (Yasna IX, 32). The Amesha-Spenta Asha Vahishta (Best Righteousness) is similarly entreated. (Yasht III, 9). An adulterer or adulteress is, as it were, an opponent of Gao, the good spirit. of the Earth or of the animal creation, the idea being, that such a person comes in the way of the progress of the world (Vendidad XXI, 1). The progress of the world in the different spheres of activity, physical and |
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mental, acts against the influence of this class. (Vend. XXI, 17).
Eredhat Fedhri is the name of a good pious maiden, who is
considered as a prototype of maidenly virtue, and whose guardian
spirit is invoked to withstand the evil machinations of Jahi,
the personification of this vice (Yt XIII, 142). In the Pahlavi
Bundahishn (Chap. III), this Jahi is said to be an accomplice of
Ahriman himself. Her work is said to be "to cause conflict in the
world,"75 wherefrom the distress and injury of Auharmazd
and the archangels will arise.
In the Pahlavi Dadestan-i-Denig (71st question),76 adultery is spoken of as one of the most heinous sins. The mother of Zohak is said to be the first woman in the world, who committed this offence. It is said to be a sin which disturbs all lineage, which puts an end to all control upon one's desires and to the legitimate authority of a husband. It is more heinous than theft or spoliation (77th question).77 It is a crime which leads at times to murder, because the woman brings about abortion at times.78 There is another way in which adultery leads to murder. It is noted in our account of pregnancy,79 that sexual intercourse during pregnancy is prohibited, because it is thought that it leads to an injury to the life of the child in the womb. Now, a woman, who yields to lust and gives herself up to an adulterous life, is likely to commit adultery, even in pregnancy. Such sexual intercourse may cause the loss of the life of the child in the womb.80 Again, adultery is a canker in society in another way. When a man commits adultery with a woman, he, according to the injunction of the Vendidad, is bound to support the woman whom he has seduced and the children that may be born of the illicit intercourse. It is his duty to bring up his illegitimate |
75. S.B.E. Vol. V, p. 15. 76. S.B.E. Vol. XVIII, Chap. LXXII, 5. 77. Ibid, Chap. LXXVIII, 3. 78. Ibid, p. 5. 79. Vide above, p. 3, "Birth Ceremonies." 80. Dadestan-i Denig, 77th Question, Chap. LXXVIII, 6. |
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children along with his legitimate children. In that case, the
company of the illegitimate children is likely to spoil the good
manners and morals of the legitimate children.81 But, if he
does not bring up the illegitimate children properly, if he does not
give them proper trainingt he is responsible fort and guilty of, all
the wrongful acts and sins that the children may commit in their
childhood or in their grown-up age.82
The sin of adultery is very heinous in itself. But what little atonement can be done for it can be done by the following good acts:- (a) The guilty person, especially the adulterer, must help by money or otherwise, in bringing about the marriage of four poor couples. (b) He must assist with money poor children who are not cared for by others and bring them up decently and educate them. (c) If he sees others in society leading a vicious life, he must do his best to retrieve them. (d) He must perform certain religious rites like those of the Dvâzdeh-Homâst. In the Viraf-Nameh the adulterer is represented as punished by being thrown in a steaming brazen cauldron (Chap. LX), and the adulteress as gashing her own bosom and breasts with an iron comb. (Chap. LXII).83 The adulteress who brings about abortion, meets with worse punishment. (Chap. LXIV). In all cases of adultery, the Vendidad (XV.18) enjoined, that the person seducing a woman, whether married or unmarried, should maintain her, and the children that may be born of her, until they come to age. Any attempt at desertion was considered a great sin (Vend. XV, 11-14).
The Pahlavi Madigan-i-Hazar Dadistan named the Social Code of the Parsees
by Prof. Darmesteter, and proposed to be called a Law-book (Rechts buch) by
Prof. Bartholomae is a book of a judicial type containing old Iranian Laws
on marriage and cognate subjects.
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CHAPTER III. FUNERAL CEREMONIES AND CUSTOMS.We will treat the subject of the Funeral Ceremonies and observances under two heads: (I.) The Ceremonies that relate to the disposal of the body, and (II.) Those that relate to the soul.
I. Ceremonies that relate to the disposal of the body.The main principle, at the bottom of the Parsee custom of disposing of the dead and at the bottom of all the strictly religious ceremonies enjoined therewith, is this that the body, when the immortal soul has left it, should, preserving all possible respect for the dead, be disposed of in a way the least harmful and the least injurious to the living. For properly understanding the Parsee ceremonies that relate to the disposal of the body, one must look to the ancient Zoroastrian ideas of sanitation, segregation, purification, and cleanliness as expressed in the Vendidad, one of their Avesta Scriptures. As Prof. Darmesteter (Zend Avesta II) says, all the ceremonies of this order can be summed up in two words, which are the same as those which sum up today all the prophylactic measures in the case of an epidemic, viz., (1) to break the contact of the living with the real or supposed centre of infection; (2) to destroy this centre itself. Though all do not die of an infectious disease, it is dangerous and difficult to leave it into the hands or all, to distinguish which case is infectious and which not. So, for the sake of precaution and safety, it seems to | |
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have been enjoined, that all cases of death should be supposed
as infectious, and that people should come into as little contact
as possible with dead bodies.
Again, an idea of simplicity is observed in these ceremonies. Sâdi, the Persian poet, says: Chun âhang-i-raftan kunad jân-i-pâki.e., when the pious soul thinks of departing, it is all the same, whether one dies on a throne or on bare ground. The Parsee custom of the disposal of the dead illustrates, as it were, the above words of the poet. The method of carrying the body for disposal, from beginning to end, is the same for all.
When a person's case is given up, the relations begin to make
preparations for the disposal of the body.
At first, a part of the house on the down-floor,
where the body is to be placed before its
removal to the Towers, is washed clean with
water. The shroud or the dress with which the body is to be
covered is also washed beforehand in the house. The shroud
or the dress with which the body is covered is white and made
of cotton. It need not be new. Old clothes may be used
for the purpose after being washed. Unnecessary wastage of
clothes over the dead bodies is forbidden. (Vendidad, V. 60).
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When a case is given up as hopeless, the relations send for two or more priests, who assemble round the sick bed of the dying person and say, for his benefit, the Patet, which is a prayer for the repentance of one's sins. The priests are paid in money and corn for their services. This is called the Akhiânah1 ceremony because during this ceremony, priests are presented with grain. | 1. The grain presented to priests, both on unhappy occasions like death, and happy occasions like Naojote [navjote] or Marriage, is called Akhiânah, (perhaps corresponding to Av. akhehaêna. i.e., that which prevents weakness). |
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This part of the funeral ceremonies is not generally performed.
The origin of this custom seems to lie in the fact that a
person must always say his repentance prayer [patet], and repent of his
sins. If he is conscious and able, he must do so at the approaching
moment of death. His near relations and friends may
join in the last prayers. If the recital of the whole patet is not
possible, the recital a short time before death, of the Ashem-Vohu
formula by the dying person himself, if he is able, or
by some relation, if he is unable, is considered meritorious. The
Hadokht Nask (I, 31-32) says that the recital of the Ashem-Vohu
formula2 at the very end of life, praising good thoughts,
good words, and good actions, and condemning evil thoughts, evil words,
and evil actions is, in point of greatness, goodness and
excellence equal in value to the whole or the region of Khwaniras
with its cattle and leading men. The purport of all this is to say
that if a man at his dying moment could honestly say
that he led a pious life and repented of all his sins, that life is
worth more than the country of Khwaniras with all its riches.
In the Vendidad (XII, 1-19), a shorter period or mourning is enjoined to the surviving relations of a righteous person (Dahma) than to those of a sinful person (Tanu-peretha). According to tradition, the Dahma or the righteous in this case is one who has said his repentance prayer or recited the Ashem Vohu; and the Tanu-peretha or the sinful is one who has not said that prayer or recited that formula. A longer period of mourning is enjoined for the sinful, because, in his case, the surviving dear ones have not only to mourn his loss, but have to mourn for the fact that he has not led a good life, and as such has to meet with punishment.3 |
2. It may be thus translated: "Righteousness is the best gift and
happiness. Happiness to him who is righteous for the sake of best
righteousness." 3. Cf. the words of Hamlet's ghost:- "Cut off even in the blossoms of my sin, |
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Upto a few years ago, a short time before death, a few
drops of the consecrated haoma juice were
poured into the mouth of the dying person.
The haoma4 plant being an emblem of
immortality, its juice is poured to impress an idea that, after
all, the soul of a man is immortal. The haoma plant reminds
one of "The Tree of Life" of the Christian scriptures (Genesis, II, 9)
in the garden of Eden and of the Sidra or Lotus of the
Mahomedan scriptures (The Qurân, LIII, 14-20: S.B.E., IX, p. 252).
As the Tree of Life is guarded by the Cherubim and
the Sidra by 70,000 angels, so the haoma-i saphid, or the
White Haoma, is guarded by 99,999 Fravashis or the guardian spirits.
Sometimes, instead of the juice of the haoma plant, if it was
not available at hand, the juice of a few grains of pomegranate,
the leaves of which are considered essential in some of the Parsee
ceremonies, is dropped into the mouth of the dying person.
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A short time after death, the corpse is washed throughout, first with a little application of gaomez and then with water, generally with well-water. A clean suit of clothes, washed at home, is then put over the body. It is afterwards destroyed and never used for any other purpose. The kusti or the sacred thread is then put round the body by some near or dear one, with the recital of the Nirang-i-kusti, or the Ahura Mazda Khudae prayer.5 The corpse is | 5. In some cases, generally those of old men, when they were given up as hopeless, the final bath was, upto a few years ago, given during the last moments of life. |
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then placed on a cot. Then two persons keeping themselves in
touch with the body sit close by, and somebody recites the
Ashem Vohu prayer very close to the ear of the deceased. The
relations then meet or embrace the deceased for the last time.
In Persia, the person washing the corpse puts on woolen gloves.
After this time, the dead body is supposed to fall under the influence of Druj-i-Nasush, i.e., the evil influence of Decomposition or Destruction. It is considered that to touch the body then is dangerous for the living, lest they should catch contagion and spread disease. Only the corpse-bearers are allowed to come into contact with the body. If somebody else touches the body, he has to go through a process of purification or a sacred bath taken under the directions of a priest. The body is now given in charge of two persons who are generally trained to their work. They are first required to take a bath and put on a clean suit of clothes. They perform the Kusti,6 i.e., ungird the sacred thread and put it on again with a prayer, and then recite a part of the Srosh-baj prayer. Then holding a paywand between them they enter the room where the corpse is placed.
The Paywand.To hold a paywand means to be in close contact or touch with each other. This is done when two persons hold a piece of cloth or cotton tape between them. This is intended to show that they are associated or united in doing a thing and are ready to co-operate and sympathise with each other. When these two persons enter into the room, holding the 'paywand' between them, the two relations who are sitting by the side of the deceased leave their places and entrust the body to them. They place the body on the ground on a clean white sheet of cloth and put on the shroud over it. The whole of the body except the face is covered with | 6. Vide below, the Naojote [navjote]. |
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cloth. In some parts of Gujarat even the face is covered with
a padan (Avesta, paitidana}.7
The corpse is then lifted from its place by the above-mentioned two persons and put on slabs of stones in a corner of the front room. The hands are arranged upon the chest crosswise. In some of the towns of Gujarat, the old Avestic method of placing the dead body on a plot of ground previously dug in the house, instead of on slabs of stone is still in practice. The ground is dug out a few inches deep and a layer of sand is spread over it. The corpse is placed on the ground thus prepared (Vendidad, V, 11; VIII, 8). The body is placed on the ground or on the slabs in a position which would avoid the head pointing towards the North. In all the ceremonies of the Parsees, the north side is as a rule generally avoided. The children while going through the naojote [navjote] ceremony for the purpose of putting on the sacred shirt [sudre] and thread [kusti], the marrying couple going through the Ashirvad or marriage ceremony, and the priests in all their religious rites and ceremonies never face the North. This is due to the fact that the ancient Iranians, the ancestors of the Parsees, had a natural hatred for the North, from which side proceeded all kinds of dangers and evils whether climatic, physical or mental. The Vendidad (VII, 2, 5) says that the Druj-i-Nasush, i.e., spirit of Destruction runs from the northern direction in the form of a fly. Even the wind from the northern direction was believed to be stinking (Yasht Fragment, XXII, Hadokht Nask, III, 18).8 The winds from the northern cold |
7. The padan is a piece of white cotton cloth put over the face. It is
also put on by the Parsee priests when they say their prayers before the
sacred fire or other sacred things of offerings. This is intended to prevent
particles of saliva falling over the body or over the sacred things and
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regions brought sickness and death in Persia. Again, the marauduers
from Mazenderan, Gilan, and other adjoining regions in the
North brought destruction and death in many Iranian families.
These people of the North were depraved and wanting in many
moral qualities. On the other hand, the South was considered a
very auspicious side. The winds from the South were healthy
and invigorating. Coming from the South, they brought rain and
plenty. The wind blowing from the south purified the atmosphere
all round (Vendidad, III, 42). Thc wind blowing towards
the soul of a virtuous man, when it (the soul) passes on to Heaven
on the dawn of the third night after death, was said to be sweet-scented
and fragrant and to have come from the south (Yasht Fragment XXII, Hadokht Nask II, 19).
Owing to the belief based on these facts and considerations,
the North was always avoided.9
After placing the corpse on slabs of stones, one of the two persons, draws round the body three Kashas9 or circles with a metallic bar or a nail. This is intended to show that the ground within the circle is temporarily set apart for the corpse, and that nobody is to go to that part of the ground lest he should catch infection.
In ancient Persia, almost all houses were provided with
separate apartments for placing the corpse
before its removal to the Towers of Silence [dahkma].
In the case of the poor who could not afford
to have such separate apartments there was a separate house for
the purpose in every street. The poor carried their dead to
such houses before removing them to the Towers. "Ahura Mazda
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said: 'In every house, in every street, they should make
three katas (separate parts of ground) for the dead' ". (Vend., V., p. 10).
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8. Cf. the ancient Egyptians, while mummying the dead bodies,
pointed the head towards the South (Maspero's Egypt and Assyria). 9. Vide my paper on "Iranian kashas and the Boundary lines of the Roman Lustrum" (Journal of the Anthropological Society of Bombay, Vol, VIII, pp. 520-30. My Anthropological Papers, Part I., pp. 331-39), |
It is said that even now, such separate houses are provided in
the Parsee streets in Persia where the parties take their dead
and perform the funeral ceremonies before removing them to
the Towers of Silence. Such houses are known as "margzâd" [mortuary].
Up to late, some of the mofussil towns of Gujarat had such
separate houses for the dead in Parsee streets. They were
known as Nasâkhânâs, i.e., the houses
for the dead bodies. Every Parsee town has a Nassâ-Khânâ,
but now it is generally used as a depot for the biers, the slabs of
stones above referred to, the shrouds and such other requisites for
the removal of the dead. The Bahman Yasht (Chap. II, p. 38) speaks
of it as Nasâi-kata10 (corpse-chamber).
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It is enjoined that the place to be chosen for such apartments
or houses for the dead should be free from
dampness, should be the least frequented
by men and animals, and should be far away from the place
where religious ceremonies are performed. The Vendidad (VIII, p. 5)
says: "Ahura Mazda said that (they must choose) in the house of a Mazdayasnian
the cleanest and the driest place which is the least frequented by
cattle and beasts of burden, by the fire of Ahura Mazda, by the barsom
spread through piety and by the holy man". After having placed the body
on one side of the ante-room, either on slabs or on a part of the
ground dug and specially prepared, the two persons, who were
up to now arranging all these things, now leave the house,
still holding the paywand between them. They then finish
the Srosh Baj prayer, a part of which they had recited before
commencing their work.
The SagdidOne of the ceremonies is that of the Sagdid. The word 'Sagdid' is made up of sag, a dog, and did, sight, and means "the sight of a dog." A [59] dog, usually a four-eyed (Chathru-chashma) dog, i.e., a dog with two eye-like spots just above the eyes, is made to see the corpse.11 As regards the purpose why the sagdid is performed, various reasons are assigned: (a) Some say that the particular class of the spotted (chathru-chashma, or the four-eyed) dog had the characteristic of detecting whether life in the body of a man was extinct or not. It stared steadily at the body if life was extinct, and did not look at it at all if life was not altogether extinct. Thus the purpose for the sagdid among the ancient Iranians was to ascertain, before the disposal of the body, whether life was really extinct. (b) Others, as Dr. Haug says, attributed the sagdid to some supposed magnetic influence in the eyes of the dog. (c) There were others who connected the sagdid of the dog, which of all animals is the most faithful to his master, with the idea of loyalty and gratitude that must exist between the living and the dear departed ones. (d) M. Abel Hovelacque thinks that the respect which the Mazdayasnians professed for the dog may be due either to a recollection of ancient belief of which the correct meaning may have been |
11. It appears from the customs of several ancient nations that the dog
played a prominent part in the funeral ceremonies of these nations. (a) Compare the Chathru-chashma of the Avesta with the "four-eyed dogs" of the Rig-Veda (10th Mandala) which guarded the way to Yama'a abode; "Fear not to pass the guards — The four-eyed brindled dogs — that watch for the departed". Mon. Williams Indian Wisdom (1876, p. 22). (b) Among the ancient Romans, Lares of the departed virtuous, were represented in pictures with a dog tied to their legs. This was intended to show, that as the dogs watched faithfully at the door of their masters, so the Lares watched the interests of tho family to whioh they belonged, (c) The peope of the West Indies bave a notion among them of the dogs accompanying the departed dead. Cf. the following lines of Pope; "Even the poor Indian whose untutored mind Sees God in clouda or bears him in the wind; Thinks admitted to yon equal sky His faithful dog shall bear him company." |
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lost or to a special motive. That motive may be the expression
of the recognition of the dog's valuable services in a society
where the country life, agriculture, and the breeding of the cattle
played a role of great importance.12 (e) Again, others considered
the dog to be symbolical of the destruction ot immoral passions.
Death put an end to all passions; so, the presence of a dog
near the dead body emphasized that idea. Cf. Dante's following
lines:-
"For that fell beast whose spite thou wailest o'er,(Divine Comedy, Hell, Ch. I, ll. 94-102; Dr. Plumptre's Translation.) In these lines, the greyhound is considered as the deliverer of Italy. He is the symbol of the destroyer of the passions of sensual enjoyment, pride and avarice which are represented by the leopard, the lion, and the wolf.13 |
12. Ce respect que le Mazdéens professaient pour le chien avait-il un
motif spécial; était-il le souvenir d'anciens événements, d'anciennes
croyances dont on pouvait bien avoir perdu déja le véritable sens, c'est
ce que nous ne pouvons assurer. Faut-il simplement en voir la cause dans la
reconnaissance á laquelle le chien devait avoir un si juste titre pour ses
bons offices, dans une société ou la vie de campagne, la culture de la
terre, l'élevage du bétail jousient un rôle si considérable? Peut-être
les deux opinions ont-elles ici, comme bien souvent, une égale raison
d'être." (L' Avesta, Zoroastre et le Mazdéisme, par Abel Hovelacque,
(1880) p. 337). 13. For the various beliefs about the dog, vide "The Dog in Myth and Customs" by E. T. Leith (Journal of the Anthropological Soeiety of Bombay, Vol. III, pp. 302-306 and pp. 360-362). Vide my paper on "The Tibetan Mode of the Disposal of the Dead. Some side-light thrown by it on some of the details of the Iranian mode as described in the Vendidad. A study" in the Sir J. J. Z. Madressa Jubilee Volume, edited by me, pp. 347-35. |
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(f) Some connect the idea of the sagdid with the symbolic
idea of the two dogs — the Canis major and the Canis minor in
the Orion at the Chinwad bridge, which is the Milky Way.14
The Sagdid is performed twice during the process of putting on the shroud and is repeated in every Gah15, as long as the corpse is in the house. It is repeated just when the new Gah begins. It is enjoined that in case a dog is not procurable, the Sagdid of flesh-devouring birds like the crows and vultures may be allowed; that is to say, it will do, if a flesh-eating bird happens to pass and see the corpse from above.
After the first sagdid, fire is brought into the room in a vase
and is kept burning with fragrant sandalwood
and frankincense. This is done with a
view to destroy the invisible germs of disease that may be floating
in the air in the room where the corpse is placed before its
removal to the Tower of Silence [dakhma]. We read the following in the
Vendidad (VIII, 79, 80) about this sanitary use of fire: "O holy
Zarathushtra! If one carries with purity (for the fire) the
aêsma (i.e., the wood) of the plant Urvâsna, or Vohugaôna,
or Vohukêrêti, or Hadhânaêpata16, or any other
fragrant tree, the fire of Ahura Mazda goes to fight a thousand times against
the invisible evil daevas17 in all the directions in which the wind
spreads the fragrance of the fire."
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Then a priest sits before the fire and recites the Zend-Avesta
till the time of the removal of the corpse to
the Tower [dakhma], and keeps the fire burning. It
is not absolutely necessary that a priest should recite prayers at
this time. Any person in the house can recite prayers and
keep the fire burning. The priest and all other persons are
enjoined to sit at a distance of at least three paces from the
corpse, so that in case the deceased died of an infectious disease,
there may be no danger or risk to the health and life of the living.
We read the following about this enjoinment: "O Creator
of the material world! At what distance from the holy man
(should the place of the corpse be)?" Ahura Mazda replied,
"three paces." (Vendidad, VIII, 6, 7.)
The corpse may be removed to the Tower [dakhma] at any time during
the day. As it is enjoined that "the Mazdayasnians should expose the body to the
Sun," (Vend. V, 13), the removal of the body at night is strictly
forbidden. If death takes place early at night, the body is removed
the next morning; but, if it takes place late at night or early in
the morning, it is removed in the afternoon. In the case of an
accidental death, a long interval is generally allowed. The Vendidad
{VII, 4-5) says, that in a such a case, the decomposition does not commence
as early as in the case of a body that was suffering from illness, but
commences after one Gah, or one period of the day; and so, it is not
detrimental to the health of the living to keep the body some time longer.
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About an hour before the time fixed for the removal of the
body to the Tower [dakhma], two — or four if the body
is heavier — Nassâsâlars,19 i.e.,
corpse-bearers, clothed in perfect white, enter the house,
after having said and performed the Padyab-Kusti. All the
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parts of the body except the face are covered up. They put
on dastânek (i.e., covering for the hand) over their hands.
The exposed parts of the body are covered up to ensure their
safety against catching infection through any uncovered part,
should the deceased have died of an infectious disease. They
enter the house holding a paywand20 between them and carry
an iron bier, called gekân,21 to remove the body. Wood being
porous and therefore likely to carry and spread germs of disease
and infection, its use is strictly prohibited in the funeral ceremonies.
So, the bier is always made of iron.
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19. The Nasu-Kashas of the Vendidad. In large towns or centres of
Parsee population, there are generally two classes of corpse-bearers,
(a) The Nassâsâlars, who go to the house and
place the corpse on the bier,
and who afterwards enter the Tower [dakhma] and expose the corpse there.
(b) The Khândhâs (lit., those who carry the body on their Khândh,
i.e., shoulders) whose business is to carry the bier of the corpse from the
house to the Tower. In small towns where the Parsee population is scarce,
one and the same persons perform both the works. In smaller towns where the Parsee
population is more scarce, there are no paid professional carriers of this type and
the corpses are disposed of by the relations and friends of the deceased. In Bombay,
it being the head-quarters of the Parsees, there is a paid staff of about 50 professional
corpse-bearers of both the classes. 20. Vide above, p. 54. 21. Perhaps from Pers. gâh bed, meaning the last bed. |
The corpse-bearers must be at least two, even if the deceased
were a mere infant that could be carried by
a single person. "Nobody should carry the
dead alone" (Vendidad, III, 14). If the body
is heavy, it must be carried by four, six, eight, ten,
or any such even number. A pair, or the number two, plays a prominent part
in all the ceremonies for the disposal of the dead body and that pair
always holds a paywand between them. After death, the body must
never be left alone or in the company of only one person. After washing
it, there must be always two persons sitting by its side. Again the
persons, who put on the shroud and place it on slabs of stone in a
corner of the house before its removal to the Tower [dakhma], must be two.
We will see further on, that the priests who say the last funeral prayers
at the house are also two. The persons who attend the funeral procession
to the Tower also go in pairs
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of two and two, holding a paywand in the form of a handkerchief
between them. A single individual should never attend
the funeral. The injunction of having pairs in all these funeral
ceremonies is intended to create a view of sympathy and mutual help.
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The recital of the Bâj.The corpse-bearers, on entering the house, place the bier by The recital of the the side of the corpse and then "take the Baj."22 They then recite a formula in a suppressed tone which says: "(We do this) according to the dictates of Ahura Mazda, according to the dictates of the Amesha Spentas, according to the dictates of the holy Sraosha, according to the dictates of Adarbad Marespand [Mahraspandan],23 and according to the dictates of the Dastur of the age."24
By the recital of this formula, known as the Dasturi formula, they
declare that they undertake to perform all the ceremonies for
the disposal of the dead as enjoined in the religious books and
as directed by the Head-priest of the time. Then they sit
silent by the side of the corpse. If they have at an any
occasion to speak, they speak with a kind of suppressed tone,
without opening the lips, which is said to be speaking in baj.
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22. "To take the Baj" is to recite the Srosh-baj prayer up to the
word "Ashahe" in the Kem-na Mazda prayer which forms a part of the
Srosh-Baj (Darmesteter, Le Zend Avesta II, pp. 686-88). When the
particular work of a person in connection with the disposal of the
dead body is finished, the baj is also then finished, i.e.; the
remaining part of the Srosh-baj is recited. This baj is also taken by the
priest at the time of bathing and in the Barashnom ceremony. 23. He was a well-known Dastur or Head priest of the Sasanian times, and took an active part in the renaissance of the Zoroastrian religion after the long period of ignorance in the times of the Parthians. 24. Here they recite the name of the Head-priest, if there be one, of the time at the town. |
The Geh-Sarna [geh-sarnu] prayer
Then follows the "Gêh-Sârnâ" ceremony, i.e., the recital of
the Gatha. Its recital was intended as a
sermon and exhortation to give moral courage
to the survivors to bear up with fortitude the loss of the
deceased and as a protection against the spread of disease.
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We read the following on this point in the Vendidad (X, 1, 2):
"Zarathushtra asked Ahura Mazda: 'O Ahura Mazda! Most
beneficent Spirit! Holy Creator of the material world! How
are we to stand against the druj (evil influence) which runs from
the dead to the living? How are we to stand against the nasu
{evil influence) which carries infection from the dead to the
living?' Then Ahura Mazda replied: 'Recite those words which
are spoken twice in the Gathas.' " The words referred to in this
quotation occur in a passage in the beginning of the Ahunavaiti Gatha.
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In this Geh-Sarna ceremony, two priests perform the Padyab-Kusti,
and, after reciting the prayers for the particular Gah, go
to the chamber where the dead body is placed, and standing
at the door or inside the door at some distance from the body,
and holding a paywand25 between them, put on the padan26
over their face, take the baj27 and recite the Ahunavaiti Gatha
(Yasna XXVIII-XXXIV) which treats of Ahura Mazda, his Amesha Spentas
or immortal archangels, the future life, resurrection,
and such other subjects. After reciting nearly half of the
Ahunavaiti Gatha (up to XXXI, 4), they stop for about a
minute. The corpse-bearers now lift the corpse from the slabs
of stone on which it is lying and place it over the iron bier.
The two priests now turn towards the bier and recite the
remaining half of the Ahunavaiti Gatha.28
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25. Vide above, p. 55. 26. Vide above, p. 56 n 7. 27. Vide above, p. 64. 28. It seems, that at one time, in Persia, and even in India, the Geh-sarnu prayer at the house was finished at this part of the recital and the body was removed to the Tower [dakhma], the rest of the prayer being recited on the way to the Tower. (Vide my paper on "The Geh-sarna Recital as enjoined and as recited about 150 years ago," in the Sir J. J. Z. Madressa Jubilee Volume, edited by me, pp 415-20.) |
Geh-sarnu ceremony of pregnant women.
If the deceased person is a pregnant woman in the fifth month
of her pregnancy when the child is supposed
to have some life, the geh-sarna ceremony is
enjoined to be performed by two pairs of
priests. The sagdid, above referred to, is also by two dogs, one for
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the woman and the other for the child. Again the body also is
to be carried out of the house by two pairs of Nassasalars
(Shayest Ne-Shayest, X, 1029; (Sad-Dar LXX, 5.30).
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29. S.B.E., Vol. V, p. 319. It is said that when the body of a pregnant woman has to be
carried, in unavoidable circumstances, by two persons, these two persons must go
through the Barashnom Purification (Shayest Ne-Shayast, II, 6. S.B.E., Vol. V. p. 247). 30. S.B.E., Vol. XXIV. p. 335. |
The last look
When the recital of the Gatha is finished, the final Sagdid31
is performed, and then the relations and
friends of the deceased who have by this
time assembled at the house, have a last look of the deceased.
In such an assembly, the females assemble in the house, and the
males outside the house or in the street. The males, one by one,
pass before the corpse, have a last look, and out of respect make
a bow, which process is called sijda.
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Removal from the house.
When all have had their last look and paid their respects, the
corpse-bearers cover up with a piece of cloth
the face of the deceased which was up to
now open, and secure the body to the bier, with a few straps
of cloth so that it may not fall on being lifted up and carried.
They then carry the bier out of the house and entrust it to the
Khândhiâs who are, as said above,32 another class of corpse-bearers
whose only business is to carry the bier of the corpse on
their shoulders from the house to the Tower [dakhma]. The number of
these carriers varies according to the weight of the body to be
carried. Before lifting up the body, these carriers also "take
the baj" and arrange themselves in pairs of two holding the
paywand between them.
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Gomez, or cow's urine as a purifier or disinfectant.
Immediately after the removal of the body from the house,
Gomez, i.e., the urine of the cow, is be-sprinkled
over the slabs of stone on which the
body was placed and over the way by which
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the corpse-bearers carried the body out of the house. The
slabs of stone are now generally removed from the house immediately
after the removal of the body.33
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33. In some of the Mofussil towns, at least in the orthodox families of the towns, the slabs are kept in the house for 10 days or 30 days according as the season of the year be winter or summer. This injunction seems to have been based upon the Vendidad (chap. V. 42). |
The Gomez or cow's urine is spoken of as Nirang, because its
application or use is generaily accompanied by the recital of a
nirang, i.e., a prayer formula. Cow's urine was believed by the
ancient Zoroastrians to possess disinfecting properties. So, in
order to destroy the germs of impurity and disease, if any, it
was besprinkled on the place where the dead body was placed.34
For the same reason, cow's urine played a prominent part in
cleaning impurities attached to things that came into contact
with the decomposing matters of men and animals. Such
things are first asked to be purified or washed with cow's
urine and then with water (Vend. VII, 74-75}. Utensils or
articles of furniture made of wood, clay, or porcelain that come
into contact with a decomposing body are condemned altogether.
Being porous, they are held to have possibly caught the germs
of disease from the dead body and are therefore considered to be
unsafe for further domestic purpose (Vend. VII, 75}.35
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34. Vendidad XIX, 21. 35. According to Dr. Eugene Wilhelm, many other ancient nations besides the Persians used cow's urine as a disinfectant. Vide Dr. Wilhelm's paper "On the use of Beef's Urine, according to the precepts of the Avesta and on similar customs with other nations." According to Dr. Haug, the peasants of several parts of Europe, even now, use cow's urine for a similar purpose. (Haug's Essays on the Parsees, 2nd Edition, p. 286). "The use of gomez has been lately found to be known in Basse-Bretagne (Luzel, Le Nirang des Parsisen Basse-Bretagne, Melusine, 493)" Darmesteter. S.B.E. IV, 1st ed. Introd. p. LXXXVIII n. 3. |
The Funeral Procession.
When the bier leaves the house, out of respect for the deceased,
all the male relations and friends of thc family
that have assembled at the house of the
deceased, or at times only the elders, follow the bier for some
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distance from the house or upto the end of the street. There,
they make a last bow to the deceased and stand aside, giving way to those
relations and friends who wish to accompany the funeral procession to the
Tower of Silence [dakhma]. These follow the bier at a distance of, at least,
thirty paces. The rest of the assembly now disperse. Before entering into
their houses or places of business, they wash their face and other exposed
parts of their body and perform the kusti. All those who go with the
funeral procession to the Tower are clothed in full white dress. They
arrange themselves in pairs of two, hold a paywand between them,
take the baj and silently march to the Tower. The procession is
headed by two priests. On this point we read in the Vendidad (VIII, 14, 19-21):
"O Holy Creator of the material world! How does the road over which a
dead man is carried become passable for cattle, etc.?" ... (Reply) "First,
the Athravan (i.e., the priest) should pass by the road, reciting
the victorious words (of Yatha Ahu Vairyo and Kem-na Mazda)."
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The Disposal in the Tower.
When the bier reaches the Tower, at first it is put on the
ground outside and the Nassasalars uncover
the face of the body. Those who have accompanied the
funeral procession pay their respects and have a last
look from a distance of at least three paces. Then sagdid is once
more performed and that for the last time. In the meantime, the
gate of the Tower which is kept locked with a metallic lock is
opened. The Nassasalars who had fetched the corpse out of the
house and entrusted it to the carriers and who have accompanied
the corpse, now resume charge of the body. They lift up the
bier and carry it into the Tower. They remove the body from
the bier and place it on one of the 'pâvis'.36
They then tear off the clothes from the body of the diseased and
leave it (the body) on the floor of the Tower. We read on this point
in the Vendidad (VIII, 10) "Two powerful persons may carry
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him and place him naked without any clothes on this earth,
on clay, bricks, stone and mortar." The body must be exposed
and left partly uncovered, so as to draw towards it the eye
of the flesh-devouring birds and to fall an easy prey to them.
The sooner it is devoured, the lesser the chance of further
decomposition and the greater the sanitary good and safety.
The clothes removed from the corpse are never used for, any
purpose whatever, but are thrown in a pit outside the Tower,
where they are destroyed by the combined action of heat, air,
and rain. In Bombay they are further destroyed with sulphuric acid.
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36. The platform of the Tower is divided into separate sections named pâvis. Each corpse is placed on a separate pâvi. |
On the Nassasalars completing their work in the Tower and
on their locking the Tower, notice is given, by a clapping of hands
by a servant, to all those who have accompanied the funeral
procession and who have by this time taken their seats at some
distance from the Tower, to say that the body is placed in the
Tower. They all get up from their seats and finish the baj, i.e.,
recite the rest of the Srosh-baj, of which, before joining the
procession, they had recited only a part. They now leave off the
paywand and recite a short prayer which says: "We repent of all
our sins. Our respects to you (the souls of the departed). We remember
here the souls of the dead who have the spirits of the holy."
They then apply cows's urine [gomez] to the exposed portions of their
body and then wash them with water. They untie and regirdle the kusti
with its usual formula, of prayer. Then some, especially the priests,
say the Patet or the Repentance prayer, mentioning the name of the
deceased in the last portion of the prayer and thus ask the forgiveness
of God upon the deceased. As said above, the Vendidad enjoins
that only two priests must attend the funeral procession with a
view to direct and advise the adoption of the necessary rites
and ccremonies. But generally, the family invites more than two
priests to accompany the procession and to say the prayers at
the Towers. All of them are paid for their services. This being
done, all return home and generally take a bath before following
their ordinary vocations.
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The Tower [dakhma]
A short description of the Tower of Silence37 will not be out
of place here. The Tower of Silence wherein
the dead bodies are exposed to the sun
and to the flesh-eating birds, is generally built on the top of a
hill or on an elevated ground. We read on this point in the
Vendidad: "O Holy Creator of the material world! where
are we to carry the bodies of the dead? O Ahura Mazda! where are
we to place them?" Ahura Mazda replied: "O Spitama Zarathushtra!
on the most elevated place" (Vend. VI. 44-45).
On such an elevated place, an isolated spot, away from human
dwellings, is chosen for the Tower. Its construction all along is
just in accord with the view held in the performance of the
ceremonies for the disposal of the dead, viz., the sanitary
view, which enjoins that, while disposing of the dead body with all
respect due to the deceased, no injury or harm should be done to the
living. The Tower is a round massive structure built throughout of solid
stone. A few steps from the ground lead to an iron gate which opens on
a circular platform of solid stone with a circular well in the centre.
The following is a short description of a Bombay tower as given by
Mr. Nusserwanjee Byramjee, the late energetic Secretary of the public
charity funds and properties of the Parsee community.
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37. The Parsee word for a Tower of Silence is dakhma, which is used in the general sense of a receptacle for the dead. The English phrase "Tower of Silence" seems, as pointed out by Sir George Birdwood, to have been first used by the late Mr. Robert Zavier Murphy, who was for some time the Oriental Translator to the Govenment of Bombay. The round tower-like construction of the building seems to have suggested to him the use of the word 'Tower.' Then, in Persian and also in Hindustani, the word Khâmush, i.e., silent or Khâmushi, i.e., silence, is often used in connection with the dead. The dead are alluded to as being Khâmush, i.e., silent. Hence this Persian word Khâmush seems to have suggested to Mr. Murphy, who was versed in oriental learning, the word 'silence' in connection with the word Tower. |
"The circular platform inside the Tower, about three hundred
feet in circumference, is entirely paved with large stone slabs
well-cemented, and divided into three rows of shallow open
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receptacles, corresponding with the three moral precepts of the
Zoroastrian Religion — 'good deeds,' 'good words,' 'good thoughts.'
(The three rows are used as follows:)
"First row for corpses of males. "Second row for corpses of females. "Third row for corpses of children. "The clothes wrapped round the corpses are removed and destroyed immediately after they are placed in the Tower — 'Naked we come into this world and naked we ought to 1eave it.' "There are footpaths for corpse-bearers to move about. A deep central well (bhandâr) in the Tower, about 150 feet in circumference (the sides and bottom of which are also paved with stone slabs) is used for depositing the dry bones. The corpse is completely stripped of its flesh by vultures within an hour or two, and the bones of the denuded skeleton, when perfectly dried up by atmospheric influences and the powerful heat of the tropical sun, are thrown into this well, where they gradually crumble to dust, chiefly consisting of lime and phosphorus;- thus the rich and the poor meet together on one level of equality after death. "There are holes in the inner sides of the well through which the rain water is carried into four underground drains at the base of the Tower. These drains are connected with four underground wells, the bottoms of which are covered with a thick layer of sand. Pieces of charcoal and sandstone are also placed at the end of each drain, which are renewed from time to time. These double sets of filters are provided for purifying the rain water passing over the bones before it enters the ground — thus observing one of the tenets of the Zoroastrian religion that 'The Earth shall not be defiled.' "The vultures (nature's scavengers) do their work much more expeditiously than millions of insects would do, if dead bodies were buried in the ground. By this rapid process, putrefaction [72] with all its concomitant evils, is most effectually prevented. According to the Zoroastrian religion, Earth, Fire, and Water are sacred and very useful to mankind, and in order to avoid their pollution by contact with putrefying flesh, the Zoroastrian religion strictly enjoins that the dead bodies should not be buried in the ground, or burnt, or thrown into seas, rivers, etc. "In accordance with their religious injunctions the Parsees build their Towers of Silence on the tops of hills if available. No expense is spared in constructing them of the hardest and the best materials, with a view that they may last for centuries without the possibility of polluting the earth or contaminating any living beings dwelling thereon. "However distant may be the home of a deceased person, whether rich or poor, high or low in rank, he has always a walking funeral — his body is carried to the Towers of Silence on an iron bier by official corpse-bearers and is followed in procession by the mourners, relatives, and friends, dressed in white flowing full-dress robes, walking behind in pairs and each couple joined hand in hand by holding a white handkerchief betwOOn them in token of sympathetic grief."
In the compound of the Tower, at a short distance from it,
there is a small building called sagri, where a sacred fire is kept
burning day and night. In mofussil towns, where it is not convenient
to keep fire burning, at least, a light is kept burning.
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The Consecration of the Tower.The construction of a Tower is accompanied by religious ceremonies38 which are performed at different times during the progress of the structure and are therefore divided into three classes:-(1) The ceremony of digging the ground. (2) The "Tana" ceremony, or the ceremony of laying the foundation. (3) The consecration ceremony after which the Tower is laid open for public use. |
38. Vide below, Consecration ceremonies. |
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The solicitude for the living at the bottom of all the ceremonies.We have described at great length the funeral ceremonies upto the time of the disposal of the body in the Tower. It appears, that at the bottom of a good many of them lies a great solicitude, on the part of the lawgivers who framed the rules and dictated the ceremonies, to attend to the sanitary good of the survivors. At first sight, the details may appear irksome, but from the standpoint of sanitation and health, most of them, though enjoined about 3,000 years ago, appear essential. Every precaution is enjoined, so that, in disposing of the dead body, no contamination or injury may result to the living. After a certain time after death, no man except the official corpse-bearers, is allowed to touch the dead body or to come into any contact with it. If somebody accidentally or unavoidably touch the body, he is enjoined to keep himself aloof from and not touch them before he bathes and undergoes a prescribed ceremonial of different washings.
Segregation and Disinfection.Not only should a man not come into contact with the dead body, but even utensils and other articles of furniture should be kept away from the corpse. If wearing clothes have been defiled by the sweat, vomit, etc., of the dead, they should be altogether rejected and destroyed (Vend. VII. 13). If not defiled, they may be purified by the "Gomez" and water. If the clothes are made of leather they must be washed thrice with "Gomez," rubbed with dry earth thrice, washed with water thrice, and exposed for three months in the air before being used again. If they are made of woven cloth, which is more porous than leather and therefore likely to carry more germs of disease and infection, the above process of cleaning and washing must be repeated six times, and they must be exposed to the air for a period of six months (Vend. VII, 14-15). Even the clothes thus purified cannot be used again for religious purposes or for ordinary domestic purposes, but they can be used for other petty purposes. (Vend. VII, 18-19) | |
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Utensils for domestic purposes, if they have come into contact
with a dead body, require to be washed several times according
to the specific gravity of the metal of which they are made.
If the utensil is made of gold, it requires one washing with
"Gomez" and water and a rubbing with dry earth. An utensil
of silver, which is more porous than gold and therefore likely
to carry more contagion, requires two similar cleanings and washings.
An iron one requires three, a zinc one four, and a stone
one six washings. An utensil of porcelain, wood or clay is to be
condemned altogether (Vend. VII, 73-75). In the same way,
if accidentally a dead body happens to come into contact
with stores of grain (Vend. VII, 32-35) or of drinking water (Vend. VI, 26-41),
it is enjoined to reject and condemn a certain quantity
in the near vicinity of the body.
Thus, at the bottom of all religious injunctions and restrictions in connection with the funeral ceremonies and the disposal of the dead body, lies the sanitary principle of segregation, prevention of contamination and infecticn, and the idea of observing simplicity and equality. We will now speak of some of the observances attended to in the house after the removal of the corpse. They also point to the same end.
A few observations attended to in the house. Fire kept burning.After the removal of the body to the Tower [dakhma], all the members of the family are required to bathe. Fire is generally kept burning for three days at the spot where the body was placed before removal. Fragrant sandal [sandalwood] and incense are burnt over it. We have spoken above, about the good attributed to the fire in destroying the germs of disease lurking at the spot where the decomposing body was placed.
Spot set apart.Again the spot, where the body was placed before removal, is generally set apart and not used for some time. Nobody is allowed to go on the spot for a period of ten days if the season at the time be winter, or [75] for a period of thirty days, if the season be summer, when the decomposition and contamination are generally more rapid. (Vendidad V. 42).
Lamp and flowers.Near the spot where the body was placed, a lamp is kept burning for a period of ten days or thirty days, according as it is winter or summer. In a small pot full of water fresh flowers are kept and changed every morning and evening. On the expiry of the above period, the chamber is washed throughout.
Abstinence from meat diet.
For three days after death, the family abstains from meat
and takes food chiefly consisting of vegetable
and fish which is called "parhîzî" i.e.,
abstinence. Not only do the family, but
even nearest and dearest friends abstain from meat diet. The
abstinence is observed as a sign of mourning. Generally, no
food is cooked in the house where death has taken place. The
nearest relations of the family prepare the food for the bereaved
family and send it over to their place.
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On the custom of abstaining from meat diet during the first
three days after the death of a member of the family, we find
the following injunction in the Shayest Ne-Shayest (Chap.
XVII. 1-3). "In a house where a person shall die, until three
nights are completed, nothing whatever of meat is to be placed
on a sacred cake (dron) therein and its vicinity; but these, such
as milk, cheese, fruit, eggs, and preserves, are to be placed; and
nothing whatever of meat is to be eaten by, his relations."39
The Saddar says "In every habitation where anyone departs
... the relations should not eat meat for three days."
(Saddar LXXVIII, 1-2).40
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II. Ceremonies that relate to the soul of the deceased.We will now speak of the funeral ceremonies performed for the soul after the disposal of the body. A short epitome of some of | |
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The soul sees a picture of its deeds.According to Parsee Scriptures, the soul of a dead person remains within the precincts of this world for three days.41 In this state it sees before itself a picture of its past deeds. If it is the soul of a pious person, it sees a beautiful picture of its deeds in the past life in the form of a handsome, well-formed, strong damsel and feels happy and joyful. If it is the soul of a wicked person, it sees a horrible picture of its past deeds in the form of an ugly, ill-formed, weak woman, shudders and feels unhappy at the sight and is at a loss where to go.42 We read in the Hadokht Nask: "Zarathushtra asked Ahura Mazda, 'O Ahura Mazda, Beneficent, Spirit, Holy Creator of the material world! when a pious man dies, where dwells his soul for that night? ... Where for the second night? ... Where for the third night?' " (Yasht Fragment XXII; Hadokht Nask, Chap. II, 1-18). Then Ahura Mazda replied, "It remains at the place of his body, singing the Ushtavaiti Gatha (song of congratulation), asking for blessedness thus: 'Blessedness to him to whom Ahura Mazda of his own will grants [77] blessedness!)" (Yasht Fragment, XXII; Hadokht Nask, Chap. II, 5. Vide Haug's Text and Translation in The Book of Arda Viraf, pp.309-10). If it is the soul of a wicked man it remains within the precincts of this world for three nights, remembering all the wickedness of its past life and feeling at a loss where to go. It clamours; "Oh Ahura Mazda! To what land shall I turn? Where shall I go?" (Yasht Fragment, XXII; Hadokht Nask, Chap. III. Vide Haug's Book of Arda Viraf, p. 315).
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41. Cf. The Christian idea of the Resurrection of Christ at the end of three days. 42. Dr. Cheyne calls this "a very noble allegory." He says, "Heaven and hell are not primarily the localities appointed for souls after death; the one is 'life,' 'the best mental state;' the other is 'life's absence,' 'the worst life,' a high doctrine which is embodied in a very noble allegory in the Vendidad.... Conscience, in fact, according to the fine allegory, appears to the soul of the deceased man and conducts it to its place." (The Origin and Religious Contents of the Psalter by Rev. Dr. Cheyne (1891), pp. 398-99. The Bampton Lectures of 1889). Vide Rev. Dr. Casartelli's paper entitled: "Outre-Tombe -- A Zoroastrian Idyll" in the K. R. Cama Memorial Volume, pp. 74-78. Dr. Haug thought that this allegory suggested to Mohamed "the idea of the celestial Huris." Dr. Cheyne says, "At any rate this Zoroastrian allegory suggested the Talmudic story of the three bands of ministering angels who meet the soul of the pious man, and the three bands of wounding angels who meet the bad man when he dies." (The Origin of the Psalter, p. 437). |
Number three symbolically sacred.The soul of a man thus remains within the precincts of this world for three days. The number three is a sacred number, because it reminds one of the three principal precepts of the Mazdayasnian religion upon which the moral philosophy of the Zoroastrian religion turns. Think of nothing but the truth, speak nothing but the truth, and do nothing but what is right, and you are saved. Your good thoughts, good words, and good deeds will be your saviours in the next world. Therefore it is that, three days after death, the soul of a good man directs itself towards the paradise with three steps of Humata, Hukhta, and Hvarshta, i.e., good thoughts, good words, and good deeds. On the other hand, the soul of a wicked man directs itself to hell with three steps of Dushmata, Duzukhta, and Duzvarshta, i.e., evil thoughts, evil words, and evil actions. We read in the Hadokht Nask: "The first step which the soul of the pious man advanced, he placed in Humata (good thoughts). The second step which the soul of the pious man advanced, he placed in Hukhta (good words). The third step which the soul of the pious man advanced, he placed in Hvarshta (good deeds)." (Yasht Fragment, XXII, 15; Hadokht Nask II, 34, Ibid, p. 314).
Sraosha as the protecting angel.Now for the three days and nights that a soul is believed to remain within the precincts of this world, it is under the special protection of Sraosha [Srosh]. The Yazata or the angel Sraosha is a guardian angel [78] guiding the souls of men. He is a guardian angel whom the Almighty has appointed to guide the souls of men while living and even when dead. The Yasna says: "O beautiful, holy Sraosha! protect us here in these two lives, in these two worlds, in this world which is material, in that which is spiritual." (Yasna LVII, 25).
As Sraosha is the protector of the soul in this world, all the
prayers of a Zoroastrian begin with a Srosh-baj, which is a
prayer for the Khshnuman of (lit., for the pleasure of, i.e., for
thanking) Sraosha. It is for this reason, that Srosh Yasht (Yasna LVII) is
generally recited by a Parsee at night before going to bed, to pray that
his soul be under the protection of the angel when he is asleep.
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The first three days' ceremonies at home.
As the soul is uuder the protection of Sraosha for three
days after death, when it is still within the
precincts of this world, the religious
ceremonies for the soul of the dead during
the first three days are performed in the name of, or with the
Khshnuman of Sraosha. This angel is specially implored by the
relations of the deceased to protect his soul. The Shayest Ne-Shayest says:
"In all the three days, it is necessary to perform
the ceremonial (Yazishn) of Srosh, for this reason, because
Srosh will be able to save his soul from the hands of the
demons for the three days; and when one constantly performs a ceremonial
at every period (gah) in the three days, it is as
good as though they should celebrate the whole religious ritual at
one time".43 We will now describe these ceremonies performed
for the first three days in honour of Sraosha.
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43. Chap. XVII, 3, S.B.E. Vol. V. (1880) pp. 382-83. |
At the commencement of every gah, two or more priests and
the relatives of the deceased say the Srosh-baj and the prayers
of the particular Gah, and the Patet or the repentance prayer
with the Khshnuman of Sraosha. At night, at the commencement
of the Aiwisruthrem Gah, two priests perform the Afrinagan
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ceremony in honour of Sraosha. They sit on a carpet face to
face with a vase of fire and a metallic tray between them.
The senior priest, who has the tray beforc him, is called "Zaoti"
(from Zu, to perform a ceremony), or performer of cercmonies.
The other, who has a vase of fire before him, is called the
Atravakhshi, or the fire-priest. The metallic tray contains a
pot of pure water and a few flowers, eight of which are
arranged in a particular order. Two of them point to the fire
and the remaining six are arranged in two rows of three each,
pointing to one another and in a line at right angles to the line
in which the first two are arranged.
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The Zaoti begins the Afringan with what is called a Dibache,
i.e., introduction, which is a prayer in the Pazand language,
wherein he invokes the protection of the angel Sraosha upon the soul
of the deceased,whbm he names in the prayer. When the Dibache44
is finished, both the priests recite together the seventh Kardah (Av. Kereta)
or section of the Srosh Yasht, (LVII, 15-18), which sings the praise of the
angel for the protection it affords.
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44. Spiegel-Khordeh Avesta (Bleeck'& Translation). Vol. III, p. 172. |
The first three days' ceremonies at the Fire-temple.Besides these prayers and ceremonies, which are performed for three days and nights at the house of the deceased, the Yasna prayers, and sometimes the Vendidad with the Khshnuman of Sraosha are recited at an adjoining Fire-temple for three successive mornings and nights. These Yasna prayers and the Baj ceremonies with the Khshnuman of Sraosha, can be performed only at the Fire-temples.
The Uthamnu ceremonyIn the Uzerin Gah of the third day, a ceremony is performed which is called the "Oothamnâ" [Uthamnu] The friends and relatives of the deceased and a few priests meet together in an assembly. The particular prayers of the Gah, the Srosh Hadokht (Yasht [80] XI.) and the Patet are recited. A Pazand prayer with the Khshnuman of Sraosha is recited, wherein the name of the deceased is announced and the protection of Sraosha is implored for him. This is an occasion for the announcement of charities. This ceremony and this assembly are very important, because, at the end of the ceremony, the relations and friends of the deceased generally announce donations to charity funds in the naiyat or memory of the deceased and to commemorate his name. The Parsee community of India has given many lacs of rupees in public charity. Of this sum, a large part was announced at these funeral gatherings of the third day after death.
The custom of commemorating the name.
The Parsees have another custom of commemorating the
name of a deceased person if he be a great
public benefactor. At the conclusion of
the above "Oothamna" ceremony on the
third day, the head priest generally, or in his absence an
"akâbar," i.e., a leader of the community, proposes before
the assembled Anjoman, i.e., the public assembly, that the name of
the deceased public benefactor, whose benefaction or good deeds
he enumerates, be commemorated by the community consenting to
remember the name of the deceased in all the public religious
ceremonies in the Dhup-nirang recital. This proposal is sometimes
seconded by somebody, or very often it is just placed before the
assembly without any formal seconding. When nobody opposes that
proposal, silence is taken as consent, and thenceforth the name of the
deceased is recited and his soul is remembered in all public religious
ceremonies. If the deceased public benefactor has done benevolent acts
for the good of the whole Parsee community, in whatever part of the world
they be, his name is recited and remembered by the whole community.
If the deceased has done good and benevolent acts for the good of the
community of his own particular town or district, the Anjoman of that
town or district alone begins to invoke his name in the religious
ceremonies. For example, the name of Sir Jamsetjee Jejeebhoy, the
first Parsee Baronet, who
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rose from very poor circumstances to be a merchant prince of
India, and who gave large sums of money in charity, not only
for his own co-religionists but for all sections of the mixed
community of India, is remembered in the religious ceremonies
by the whole Parsee community of India.
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This custom45 is a very old one. It had its origin in the old
Avesta times. The Farwardin Yasht contains a long list of the
departed worthies of old Iran who had, before the time when the
Yasht was written, done some benevolent acts for the good of the Mazdayasnian
community. The Afrin-i Rapithwin, written, later on, in the Pazand language,
contains a few names of such illustrious departed worthies.
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45. I am told that a somewhat similar custom prevails at the University of Oxford, where during the bidding prayer, they make "a long statement recalling the gifts of benefactors to the University in times past. It is really a thanks giving to Almighty God for the gifts of the worthies of old who gave lands and money to endow the Colleges and University. The list of benefactors is read out in full on the high festivals in the University Church only." (Dr. L. Mills in a letter). |
The different formulae for commemorating the names of the deceased.The formulae used for this purpose have varied at different times. The formula used in the Farwardin Yasht is: "We invoke the Fravashi...." For example, "We invoke the Fravashi of the holy Yima of Vivanghana." The formula used in the Pazand Afrin-i Rapithwin is, "May the holy spirit of ... be one with us." For example, "May the holy spirit of Emperor Kai-Vishtasp be one with us in ceremony." The formula used now in the Pazand Dibache of the Afrinagan is, "May ... so and so ... of pious soul be remembered here." For example, "May Behedin46 Jamshed Behedin Rustam47 | |
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of pious soul be remembered here. The honour of thus
remembering thc name of a deceased person in public religious
ceremonies was considered to be the greatest honour that a
grateful community could bestow upon a person after his death
for the good that he h ad conferred upon his fellow-brethren.
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46. "Behedin," i.e., "of good religion," is a term applied to the name of
a Zoroastrian layman. If the deceased belongs to the priestly class, and
has gone through the initiating ceremony of Navar, he is spoken of as
"Ervad," which is another form of Herbad, which itself is the later
form of Avesta Aethra-paiti. If the deceased belongs to the priestly
class, but has not gone through the initiating ceremony of the Navar, he
is spoken of as "Ostâ" which is the contracted form of Avesta "Hâvishta."
If he is a head priest, he is spoken of as Dastur. If the
deceased is a female of the priestly class, she is spoken of as "Osti." 47. The second name is the name of the father. If the deceased was adopted, his adoptive father's name is mentioned instead of his own father's. In the case of females, the name of her father is mentioned with hers, if she is unmarried, and that of the husband if she is married. In case of a second marriage, the name of the first husband is mentioned with hers. The Zoroastrians of Persia, and following them the Parsees of the Kadmi sect in India, mention the name of her father. |
The adoption of a son.
If the deceased is of the age of fifteen and has left no son, it is
necessary that a son should be given to him
in adoption. The adopted son generally
belongs to a nearly-related family. The name of the son
thus adopted is declared publicly before the assembly. We
find no reference to the system of adoption in the Avesta
books. It is the Pahlavi works that refer to it. But the desire
to have a son adopted if there is no son of one's own, naturally
follows from the desire to have a son of one's own, as alluded to
in the Avesta. An Iranian was to aim at a married life and
to have a son, and not only to have him but to educate him well.
If he did his duty towards his children well, and if being well
brought up morally, they performed good acts, he, as a consequence
of, or as a recompense for, his carefulness to do his duty,
was to participate in the righteousness which resulted from the
good deeds of the children. The Shayest Ne-Shayest says, "one
is to persevere much in the begetting of offspring, since it is for
the acquisition of many good works at once; because in the
Spend and Nihadum Nasks, the high priests have taught that the
duty and good works, a son performs, are as much the
father's as though they had been done by his own hand."
(Shayest Ne-Shayest, Chap. XII, 15).48 Thus a son
was considered a blessing from several points of view. His good
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actions were expected to shed lustre upon the good name
of the father. Again, he would look after the family interests.
He would perform the necessary religious rites of his parents.
For all these reasons, an Iranian looked at a son as a great
blessing. So, failing a son, he generally wished to adopt one.
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48. S.B.E., Vol. V., p. 345. |
The passage of the soul to the other world on the fourth day.
The dawn after the third night after death is considered a
great and solemn occasion. As we said
above, the soul of a man remains within the
precincts of this world for three days. On
the dawn after the third night, it goes to the
other world. The soul passes over a bridge called Chinwad.49 We read
in the Vendidad: "The soul goes to the holy Chinwad Bridge created by
Mazda, which is an old path of immemorial times and which is for the wicked
as well as for the holy. There, they ask the soul (to account) for its deeds
done in this material world." (Vend. XIX, 29).
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49. The Chinwad Bridge reminds one of the "Sirat" of the Arabs, the "Wogho" of the Chinese, the "Gioell" and "Bifröst" of the Scandinavians. Cf. the Belief of the Ancient Egyptians. Vide my paper, "The Belief about the Future of the Soul among the Ancient Egyptians and Iranians" (Journal, B. B. R. A. S., XIX, pp. 365-374. Vide also my Asiatic Papers, pp. 137-146). |
The Chinwad Bridge and Mithra the Judge.The bridge is guarded by the angel Mithra. The Vendidad says: "(When) the third night ends and the dawn shines, the well-armed Mithra appears at the sufficiently happy mountain." (Vend. XIX, 28). This angel who is known in the later books as Mihr Dawar, i.e., Mihr the Judge, is assisted by Rashnu, the Angel of Justice, and Ashtad, the Angel of Truth. They judge a man's actions done in the past life.50 If his good deeds | |
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overweigh even by a small particle his misdeeds, his soul is
allowed to pass over the bridge to Paradise. If his good deeds
are equal to his misdeeds the soul goes to a place called
Hameshta-gehân.51 (Vend. XIX, 36). If his misdeeds
outweigh his good deeds, even by a particle, he is cast down into hell.
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50. St. Michael is also represented as weighing a man's actions in a
scale. Vide my paper on "St. Michael of the Christians and Mithra of the
Zoroastrians. A Comparison." (Journal of the Anthropological Society of Bombay,
Vol. VI, pp. 237-54. My Anthropological Papers Part I, pp. 173-90).
For a similar notion among the ancient Egyptians, Vide my paper on
"The Belief about the Future of the Soul among the
Ancient Egyptians and Iranians." (Journal, Bombay Branch Royal Asiatic Society,
Vol. XIX. pp. 365-374. My Asiatic Papers Part I, pp. 137-146). 51. The Hameshta-gehan of the Parsees reminds one of the Purgatory of the Christians and the "Aerâf" of the Mahomedans. |
Ceemonies at the dawn of the fourth day.Thus, the dawn after the third night after death is the occasion when the soul of the man is judged by Mihr Dawar, the Judge, assisted by Rashnu Rast, the Angel of Justice, and Astad, the Angel of Truth. Therefore it is considered a very important and solemn occasion for the performance of religious ceremonies for the soul of the deceased. The ceremonies performed in the Uzerin gah on the previous day are repeated, and the Afrinagan and Baj prayers and ceremonies are performed in addition. This being the time of the judgment of the man's deeds, his relations and friends pray for God's mercy on the soul of the deceased. Man is liable to err, and therefore they implore the blessing and mercy of the Almighty on this particular occasion, when his deeds are judged by the angel Mihr assisted by Rashnu and Astad. The Baj ceremonies on this occasion are recited in honour of the angels who have an important share in connection with the occasion. The first Baj is in honour of the angels Rashnu and Astad together, who help the angel Mihr. The second is in honour of Ram-Khvastra, who is the angel presiding on the rarified atmosphere or ether. This is because when a man dies, the soul of a good pious man passes away to the higher rcgions through, or with the help of, rarified air. The third Baj is in honour of Ardafarosh, i.e., in honour of the spirits of all the departed souls, whose rank the particular deceased, for whom [85] the ceremony is performed, has joined. The fourth Baj is in honour of Srosh who has guided and guarded the soul of the deceased in its sojourn to the other world after death. When the Baj of Ardafarosh is recited, a suit of white clothes, together with the sacred bread and other sacrificial articles, is consecrated by the priest. This suit of clothes is called "Shiâv." It is the Vastra in the word Vastra-vata of the Farwardin Yasht: "Who will praise us ... with clothes in hand?" (Frav. Yasht XIII, 50). This suit of clothes is generally given to the priest or to, the poor.
Ceremonies on, and after, the fourth day.The other principal occasions, on which the Afrinagan-Baj ceremonies are enjoined to be performed in honour of the dead, are the "Chehârum," "Dehum," "Siroz," and "Salroz", i.e., the fourth day, the tenth day, the thirtieth day and a year after death. The following passage of the Shayest Ne-Shayest speaks of the above-said ceremonies of the dawn after the third night and of subsequent ceremonies: "And after the third night, at dawn, one is to consecrate three sacred cakes (dron), one for Rashnu and Astad, the second for Vae, the good, and the third for the righteous guardian spirit (ardâi fravard); and clothing is to be placed upon the sacred cake of the righteous guardian spirit.... And the fourth day the ceremonial (Yazishn) of the righteous guardian spirit is to be performed; and afterwards are the tenth day, the monthly, and, then, the annual ceremonies." (Shayest Ne-Shayest, Chap. XVII, 4-5. S.B.E., Vol. V, (1880) p. 383). According to the Zoroastrian belief, the relation between a pious deceased and his surviving relations does not altogether cease after death. His holy spirit continues to take some interest in his living dear sons. If the surviving relations cherish his memory, remember him with gratefulness, try to please him with pious thoughts, pious words, and pious deeds, it is likely, that these invisible departed spirits will take an interest in their [86] welfare, and assist them with an invisible helping hand. The most essential requisite, by which a surviving relative can please the holy spirits of his departed dear ones, is this, that he should be pious in thoughts, words, and deeds, and that he should perform meritorious charitable deeds. We read in Yasna (Ha. XVI, 7): "We praise the bril1iant deeds of piety in which the souls of the deceased delight." For this reason, it is not unusual among the Parsees, that on the above-mentioned occasions of the third, fourth, tenth, and thirtieth day, and on the anniversaries after death, they give food and clothing to the poor of their community, and sometimes give various sum!l in charity. These occasions are further the occasions on which the surviving relatives remember the deceased with feelings of gratitude, respect, and love, and pray to God that his soul may rest in peace and tranquility.
It appears from all the above description, that the funeral
ceremonies are intended to produce in the minds of the survivors
a great solicitude for the health of the living, respect for the
dead, feelings of gratitude and love towards the deceased, and ideas
of morality and virtue, inculcated by the thought that death levels
everybody, and that one should always be prepared for death which may
overtake him at any moment.
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